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so called humor: decent posters, will the posts of another poster drive you away?
Posted by gardendance on Saturday, December 5, 2015 7:48 PM

Somebody recently posted that another trains.com user's posts are going to drive the few remaining decent posters away. If you're a decent poster, could you please let us know if you're on the verge of getting driven away?

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Posted by schlimm on Saturday, December 5, 2015 7:54 PM

Not sure if I am "decent" (whatever that means).  Although Raymond's posts are disruptive, I try to ignore his alcohol-scented ravings since it seems the moderators are not taking any action (so far).

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Posted by zugmann on Saturday, December 5, 2015 7:58 PM

gardendance

Somebody recently posted that another trains.com user's posts are going to drive the few remaining decent posters away. If you're a decent poster, could you please let us know if you're on the verge of getting driven away?

 

At least have the courage to say who it was.   Yes, it was me.

It's been fun.  But it isn't much fun anymore.   Signing off for now. 


  

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Posted by Deggesty on Saturday, December 5, 2015 8:04 PM

Patrick, I appreciate the postings of the intelligent posters so much that the postings of the immature/childish will not drive me away.

I am pleased to see the posts of serious people who do want to learn about the magnificent world of railroading, and I am glad that there are many of us old heads who are willing to help them--I even give a little help myself, from time to time.

Several years back, a young boy who said that he was going to be an engineer (I think he is now a dispatcher) began posting, and he was helped in several ways by one old head or another. 

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Posted by gardendance on Saturday, December 5, 2015 8:19 PM

Zuggmann, I have no courage at all, I cower behind a monitor and keyboard just like any other scaredy cat.

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Posted by zugmann on Saturday, December 5, 2015 8:20 PM

Whatever.

It's been fun.  But it isn't much fun anymore.   Signing off for now. 


  

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Posted by gardendance on Saturday, December 5, 2015 8:46 PM

Totally.

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Posted by Semper Vaporo on Saturday, December 5, 2015 8:56 PM

YES.  I have quit several times for a week, or a month, or more, just to let the snippy idiotic posts slip off the 1st page so I can mark everything read and start over.   I find it quite depressing for people to make snide remarks about other posters, accusing them of being "trolls" or worse.  I don't see how some people can keep coming back when they are the targets of such stupidity.

But given my lousy memory for names and a short term memory that will have a hard time remembering what I just wrote, when I come back after a short hiatus, because I can't remember who the idiots are, I appreciate the helpful comments from everybody and I consider all questions to be presented as serious inquiries from someone that wants to learn from those that are in the business or know something about it... and when someone who doesn't know the business and has only a glancing knowledge of it makes a comment that another questions or corrects, I accept the criticism as being worthwhile, until it drops back into the aspersions and stupidity, then I stop reading that thread for a while (at least until I forget that I was not going to read it, which sometimes is too soon and then I remember to stop frequenting the forum altogether for a while so the bickering and snide remarks can go by the wayside and off the 1st page).

 

But, then I am not someone that is really "in the know" and I only have book knowledge about some very limited aspects of railroading.

 

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Posted by gardendance on Saturday, December 5, 2015 9:02 PM

Semper Vaporo, we seem to have this much in common. I too question whether I'm "in the know". I know a few things, and if I feel I can help I'll share what little I know. I also am much more disturbed at the posts AGAINST a supposed troll. The best way to handle a troll, as others have said, is to ignore them.

And I too have a swinging pendulum, I bounce between wanting to participate, and feeling I should take a healthy break from the computer.

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Posted by tree68 on Saturday, December 5, 2015 9:47 PM

Nah - why quit?  It's usually more fun to watch them self-destruct (or to help them do so).

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Posted by Paul of Covington on Saturday, December 5, 2015 9:48 PM

   When it comes to so-called trolls, their posts usually don't bother me.   I read them and go on.   But when other kids on the playground start jumping on them, I find that kinda amusing.   Don't take things so seriously.

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Posted by Mookie on Saturday, December 5, 2015 10:31 PM

No.  I have made a few friends and learned a lot from the forum.  It is usually better than what is on tv.  

And as maybe the only posting female on this forum, I like to think there are some people on here that don't mind my questions and others that think I am a nuisance.  It's ok - it is all an experience.  But I do wish people wouldn't feed the trolls.  

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Posted by ACY Tom on Saturday, December 5, 2015 11:26 PM

A friend told me about his past participation on a RR oriented forum (not this one). Someone asked a question about a subject in which he was extremely knowledgeable. He saw that some answers were naive, speculative, poorly informed, incomplete, or just plain wrong. So he posted the correct answers. His comments were roundly dismissed. He says as far as he knows, those folks are still trying to find the information he spoon-fed to them a long time ago.

True story: When I was about 12 years old, the N&W was still operating steam locomotives. My friends and I were building a model railroad. As we worked, someone brought up the N&W and called it the North Fork & Western. He was living a rather sheltered life and had never heard of Norfolk, Virginia. I corrected him, and I was promptly told that there was no such place as Norfolk, that Norfolk was a stupid and meaningless name, and I was absolutely wrong. To prove his point, he called for a vote. Nobody else in the group had heard of Norfolk either, so Norfolk was voted down and the N&W became the North Fork & Western. Majority rules, and the majority can't be wrong. I gave up. That describes some situations I see here. When somebody is immune to learning, or when I conclude they have nothing from which I can learn, then I stop wasting my time and I move on.

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Posted by ChuckCobleigh on Saturday, December 5, 2015 11:29 PM

Mookie

No.  I have made a few friends and learned a lot from the forum.  It is usually better than what is on tv.  

And as maybe the only posting female on this forum, I like to think there are some people on here that don't mind my questions and others that think I am a nuisance.  It's ok - it is all an experience.  But I do wish people wouldn't feed the trolls.  

 
It's hard to think what isn't better than what's on TV.
 
Thinking back, I remember a couple of other distaff forum members that have seemed to move on, or at least I haven't seen them post for quite a while.  One is CW and the other was our CSX fan (can't remember her name, just the handle CSXforevah, I think) who actually ended up going on the job with CSX, as I recall.
 
I for one enjoy your questions and observations, especially on those occasions when you share some family lore about railroading.  Oh, and yellow thingies, too.
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Posted by wanswheel on Sunday, December 6, 2015 12:33 AM

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Posted by DSchmitt on Sunday, December 6, 2015 4:15 AM

If one is really bothered by something posted they should click the Report Abuse (yellow triangle) link at the bottom left of the post and let the Monitors handle it.

Note others may or may not agree with your assessment.  Also sometimes even a real Troll posts something useful even if that is not their intention.

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Posted by gardendance on Sunday, December 6, 2015 8:58 AM

DSchmitt

2 things come to mind, "out of the mouths of babes" and "even a stopped clock is right sometime".

For example, I bet many of you would agree that http://cs.trains.com/trn/f/743/t/252434.aspx "I cant get the porter to Microwave my TV Dinner" is a rather silly thread, but I feel there are some interesting comments in it.

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Posted by gardendance on Sunday, December 6, 2015 8:59 AM

wanswheel, I finally clicked on your "Jesus was a capricorn" video. I generally don't click through on things with no description, but those with no description generally are less of a waste of my time than those that tempt me with "this is the greatest", or "you'll be amazed", or lists whose headers say "and number 5 will amaze you". But that turned out to be a pretty good song, and kind of applicable to this thread.

http://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/kriskristofferson/jesuswasacapricorn.html

Jesus was a Capricorn

He ate organic food

He believed in love and peace

And never wore no shoes

 

Long hair, beard and sandles

And a funky bunch of friends

Reckon we'd just nail him up

If he came down again

 

[Chorus:]

'Cause everybody's gotta have somebody to look down on

Prove they can be better than at any time they choose

Someone doin' somethin' dirty decent folks can frown on

If you can't find nobody else, then help yourself to me

 

Eggheads fussin' rednecks cussin'

Hippies for their hair 

Others laugh at straights who laugh at

Freaks who laugh at squares

 

Some folks hate the Whites

Who hate the Blacks who hate the Klan

Most of us hate anything that

We don't understand

 

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Posted by gardendance on Sunday, December 6, 2015 9:03 AM

ACY

... I was promptly told that there was no such place as Norfolk, that Norfolk was a stupid and meaningless name, and I was absolutely wrong

I too think that Norfolk Virginia is a stupid name, its only purpose is for the pesky conductor to holler that sleeping car passengers are not allowed to engage in amorous activities if one of them is named Virginia.

ACY

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But have you ever felt, or are likely to feel, that moving on should entail never participating in the website again?

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Posted by tree68 on Sunday, December 6, 2015 9:14 AM

ChuckCobleigh
Thinking back, I remember a couple of other distaff forum members that have seemed to move on, or at least I haven't seen them post for quite a while.

Can't forget Nora, whose "Stupid Question" thread was anything but...  Last I knew she was working for a railroad, too.

I know about that "we've never heard of it" thing - probably lost a trivia game once because no one else playing had ever heard of Reykyavik, Iceland...

While it may be falling into a troll's trap, I find it hard to let go by a downright false statement.  If I feel the ol' dander rising, though, I usually let it go, at least for a while.

As is written often on many fora - if you don't like it, don't read it.  I care little about the Sunset Route, so generally skip that thread.  I usually read "troll" material, though, just to be amazed at the depths of dumb that sometimes show up, but responding is another story.

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Posted by CShaveRR on Sunday, December 6, 2015 10:12 AM

I was a troll, to some Yoopers.  (Cuz I lived under da bridge.)

Some people who have seemed like trolls when they started posting eventually grew up.  

I'm glad we don't have too many of the flame wars that we used to have here.  They made things interesting, but we can now go to Facebook for that maturity level if we wish.

Interesting that you mentioned K.P.'s Sunset Route thread, Larry.  I don't get into it any more.  Not that I'm not interested (in fact, I traveled the length of that route this past spring, and noticed many projects going on)--it's just a little hard to keep track of at times.  But I sincerely hope that K.P. doesn't give up on us...because when things get done, it's conceivable that with a bit of editing, there's an incredible reference book in these thousands of posts.

If there's a question that I can answer (my unique experiences and expertises have to count for something), I'll do it.  I'd even venture to say that they give a level to my speculation that exceeds the average (once given the facts).  If I can't answer, theorize, or have an interest, I'll shut up and read.

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Posted by ACY Tom on Sunday, December 6, 2015 10:41 AM

Patrick (Gardendance), if I had decided that I would never participate in the forum again, I wouldn't be on it today. However, there are some threads that I consider ancient history, better forgotten.

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Posted by Paul_D_North_Jr on Sunday, December 6, 2015 12:27 PM

ChuckCobleigh
[snipped - PDN] . . . Thinking back, I remember a couple of other distaff forum members that have seemed to move on, or at least I haven't seen them post for quite a while.  One is CW and the other was our CSX fan (can't remember her name, just the handle CSXforevah, I think) who actually ended up going on the job with CSX, as I recall. . . . 

"CSXrules 4eva" - http://cs.trains.com/members/csxrules4eva/default.aspx 

"LORD HELP US ALL TO BE ORIGINAL AND NOT CRISPY!!! please? Sarah J.M. Warner conductor CSX"

Interesting post near the bottom of this page:

http://cs.trains.com/trn/f/111/t/200788.aspx?page=2 

Nothing posted here by her for a few years.  I hope she's doing well, what with all the recent closures at CSX. 

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Posted by wanswheel on Sunday, December 6, 2015 12:38 PM
 
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Posted by ricktrains4824 on Sunday, December 6, 2015 12:51 PM

I don't go away per say.... Just "keep my head down" so to speak. (If you count me as decent. Just don't ever call me normal. That is an insult! Smile)

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Posted by Semper Vaporo on Sunday, December 6, 2015 12:53 PM

Ricky:  You are a unique individual... just like everybody else.

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Posted by ACY Tom on Sunday, December 6, 2015 1:22 PM

Wanswheel --- Thanks. Now and then we need a reminder of Kris' deep belief that there is dignity in everybody, no matter how humble and no matter how many troubles that person may have. He always struck me as a humble man. He is an adequate guitar player, with a voice that's distinctive, but not great. His great strength is that he is one of our greatest and most moving poets, and his lyrics always express a deep love of humanity. This country needs more of his attitude, now more than ever.

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Posted by Convicted One on Sunday, December 6, 2015 2:07 PM

gardendance
Somebody recently posted that another trains.com user's posts are going to drive the few remaining decent posters away.

 

 That sounds like a rather trollish comment to begin with. Obviously they were trying to provoke a reaction. You fed the troll by falling for it.

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Posted by BaltACD on Sunday, December 6, 2015 3:30 PM

Let's not overlook that this is a internet forum!  Not a church service or a court room.  Troll's exist - get over it.

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Posted by gardendance on Sunday, December 6, 2015 3:53 PM

Locomotives? Luxury, we were lucky to have handcars. We had to get up at 9 o'clock, half an hour before we went to bed, clean the handcar with our tongues, have a breakfast of cold poison, work the railroad for 25 hours and pay the road foreman of engines for the privilege. When we got home our dad would kill us, cut up our bodies and dance a jig on our graves.

But you try to tell the young people of today that and they won't believe you.

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