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Posted by ATLANTIC CENTRAL on Friday, May 20, 2011 8:32 AM

TA462

 ATLANTIC CENTRAL:

Ontario must be very different from here. Are we talking about the same kind of train shows? - tables, vendors, modular layouts on display? None of those around here are put on by clubs - in fact even as the region with some of the most well know train shows, such shows seem to be slightly on the decline - at least from the standpoint of the venders who are attending fewer and saying they are not making any money at them.

Sheldon

 

Yep, they are the same kind of shows.   I believe the majority of clubs in Ontario host a model train show once a year.  My club for example puts ours on in February and it's out main source of income to pay for our expenses over the year.   Insurance, fuel expenses for towing our layout to shows and new projects eat up a fair bit of cash.   We travel to 6 shows a year with our layout that are hosted by other clubs.   The only show I can think of that is NOT hosted by a club is the Toronto show.  If you google "Ontario Train Shows"  you will see there are a lot of them out there that are put on by clubs.  

I believe there was a slight decrease in attendance at most of the shows I attended over the last year.  I think I went to around 12.  Most of the vendors I spoke with tend to agree with you up here as well.  People aren't buying as much as they use to. 

So, yes it is a very different world here. We have the well known Great Scale Model Train Show, http://www.gsmts.com/ , put on five times a year I believe by Howard Zane. And Greenbergs comes to town once or twice a year.

If I go to two a year that's a lot for me, usually just to look for a little "new old stock" stuff or buy from known small manufacturers like F&C or Tichy. 

Mostly its the same old junk with the same high prices OR the latest new stuff with prices higher than my LHS or online. Some of our good local shops set up, but why pay and admission fee to buy from them when I can just go to their store anytime?

Same modular layouts every time, some are very nice, some not so much so.

For me train shows and clubs are in the same boat, not really something I need.

Notice I have not been on here much either - too busy building model trains, and making money to buy more.

Sheldon

    

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Posted by cats think well of me on Saturday, May 21, 2011 9:38 AM

I just joined a club and like it much so far, they have their own space, it's a big layout that runs well and they use a DCC system I am familiar with, and so all that combined makes me fairly happy. It's not perfect sure, but I like it all the same. Also not having model railroading buddies otherwise it's nice to have that social connection. None of my close friends are train people, though thankfully tolerate my discourse on them. The clubs PRR/Reading oriented but no one's given me grief over my South-Eastern stock.

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Posted by CP5415 on Saturday, May 21, 2011 7:42 PM

I think too much internet & not enough public awareness is driving people away from shows.

I think another possible reason for the decline in attendance is that people are a lot more busier than they were 10-20 years ago. I know I've become a lot more busy with my kids sports among other things.

I would love to join TA462's club but it's a 30 minute drive one way & gas isn't getting any cheaper.

Then there's having to add DCC to a couple of locomotives to start..............Sad oh well.

I'll attend shows when I can. I've met a lot of people in the past few years, mainly through eBay, Kijiji & several Yahoo groups that dealt with selling HO scale railroad items & usually see them at the shows.

If i see people I know from clubs, they usually allow my son to run trains. Then there's times when my son decides to out right ask strangers to allow him to run their trains which to my amazement, they allowed him.  I've learned to carry a small fold-up ladder with me so I don't have to lift him up to see. Love the looks I get from other parents when they see me do this. They look at you saying "Why didn't I think of that!" Big Smile

I know, I was one of those parents at one time. Stick out tongue

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Posted by ATLANTIC CENTRAL on Saturday, May 21, 2011 8:57 PM

"I think too much internet & not enough public awareness is driving people away from shows."

I think the same old junk at too high a price, rude people with baby strollers, rude people on "scooters", and just plan rude people in general are driving people away from shows.

I think long walks to and from the parking lot, limited production models not available for sale, and high priced "HO highrail" is driving people away from shows.

I think bad food, the same mediorce modular layouts on display, disinterested vendors, offset by pushy vendors, and poorly lighted exhibit halls are driving people away from shows.

Just my opinion - these are reasons I don't go to very many.

Sheldon

    

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Posted by stilson4283 on Saturday, May 21, 2011 9:22 PM

I just got back from the Southeast Region NMRA "Tracks to Macon" convention and had a great time, met some great modelers, and learned a lot of great things at the clinics.  I have gone to the Big train show in Springfield MA only missing one of the last 10 years and always had a great time.  

I will not try to make excuses for others peoples experiences but I would not let that deter you.  Get out and meet other modelers.

V/R

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Posted by Aikidomaster on Sunday, May 22, 2011 3:24 PM

Let's hear it for the "lone wolves"!! Clubs seem to be dominated by a few individuals (which at times may not be too bad an idea if not taken to extremes). Clubs must have a plan and stick pretty close too it (with respect to building a layout). But, sometimes they stifle the creative "juices" of other individuals. This is the reason why I left a club several years ago. One guy, let's call him "John" was a retired engineer (not the railroad type). He can up with a track plan using one of those CAD computer programs. He want to follow the prototype of the local railroad in the 1950's. Sounds good to me. The track plan had little to do with the prototype (even though John or someone in the club had aerial photos of various landmarks. I was told to build the engine servicing area. There were a lot of structures from the previous layout to be used (they had NOTHING to do with the prototype). Well, few people showed up on regular work nights (I was one who was there). I was told to do what "was necessary to build a servicible facility). I was about half way done when I returned one night to find that John did not like it (John was rarely at the work sessions and I never had received feed back). While my work was "pulled up" and I was told to try again. No other communication. That was enough for me!! I had just moved into my new home with a new train room and I never went back again!!Super Angry

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Posted by trolleyboy on Wednesday, May 25, 2011 4:36 PM

Welcome back tot eh club ( the lone wolf club ) I was a  club modeller for about ten years even was the clubs president for a while ( that worked well I was elected by all those that disliked the big mouth wants to be god ) He still did his own thing and everyone left. Last I heard he and six others that were his go to yes men were all that still remained. Oh well clubs are like that they tend to be political and treated like someones persoanl sandbox. 

The other upside to being out on ones own is you never get that conflict of personalities and you can always ask for help from a trusted few . Or be like me I switched to all traction modelling which lessons the club pool and forces one to be a lone wolf. Works for me.

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Posted by galaxy on Thursday, May 26, 2011 8:14 AM

I have 3 local clubs to choose from should I decide to join. I don't decide to join.

Club, schmub.

Why?

well, any club, in order to function well should have some standards, whether is a MRR club or some other hobby or whatever club. I tend to be a lone wolf anyway.

Also, clubs DO develop "cliques" after a while and I don't often fit into "cliques". Never have never will.

Clubs may follow NMRA standards and may not. But they WILL require you to invest in at least a modular to fit into their layout OR a section of hte layout yet unfinished. I may not want to "spend" what they consider is "adequate" for a project on the layout. I can be cheap all by MYself {though I wouldn't consider my layout cheap as I used extruded foam on a  frame grid for my lightweight layout{ and such- not cheap old newspapers and plaster paris dipped newsparers}

It's my RR and I'll run what I wanna. THat is my motto,. A club could take that away from me IF they model only one era and only one RR. I like to think my proto-lanced layout can have trackage rights given to other RRs who have equipement I enjoy.

A club can fight over the pickiest things...like what equipement you run [brands, style, DC/DCC etc.} And I don't like that. See below.

A club is as I said, usually one era and RR. I like to swap out older steams for newer  50/60s and 70/80s equipment to avoid getting bored with my small layout. And if it is July 1958 on their layout, a {gasp} Chessie loco would not run then!

Clubs often require dues, and that can be expensive if I am short on money {happening a lot lately with teh bad ecomony and I am on a fixed income that hasn't seen a "raise" in 3 years.} I can think of better ways to spend my money.

So, A lone wolf I am and will remain.

Thank your good fortune that you can be one too!!!!

-G .

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Posted by fwright on Thursday, May 26, 2011 11:15 AM

Clubs - I kind of like them.  I'm not in one at present, mainly due to work schedule and family commitments.  When either lightens up, I'll probably pick one of the 3, although the 3rd is most likely:

- join a club

- join or form a round-robin group

- build and participate in a Free-mo group

I've been in 2 clubs in the past, in Pensacola, FL and Coos Bay, OR.  Both had club layouts under construction.  Obviously, they didn't do things 100% my way, or model my era or prototypes.  But I still had fun, and learned a lot.  Truthfully, I probably wasn't assigned to either location long enough to get rubbed the wrong way enough to make me want to quit.  And my transient status was likely less threatening to the more permanent members.

When a club is doing well, the result is far greater than the efforts of the individual members.  But being made of human beings, conflicts often stop a club from being what it ought to be and could be.

my thoughts, your choices

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Posted by VunderBob on Thursday, May 26, 2011 9:40 PM

Through the years, I've been a member of 3 different formal incorporated clubs and 2 different round robin groups. One club ran me off because of an abrasive member, but I left the other two for geographic reasons.

The most fun I've had was with the round robins, and of those one group had members with widely different tastes. One member had a similar fondness for Southern and other southern railroads, and the next week we'd go work on another members Sn3 layout. That was a blast, and we'd violate Rule G on a regular basis.

In my experience, a small, apolitical group is the best way to go. Anyone else in St. Mary's County Maryland want to start a round robin?

I used to be clueless, but i've turned that around 360 degrees.

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Posted by Rob_C on Thursday, May 26, 2011 9:41 PM

Sorry if it was mentioned earlier, how does one go about finding a round-robin group in their area?

 

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Posted by VunderBob on Thursday, May 26, 2011 9:50 PM

Start asking around at the LHS if you don't know anyone else.

I used to be clueless, but i've turned that around 360 degrees.

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Posted by Truck on Friday, May 27, 2011 12:12 AM

Rob_C

Sorry if it was mentioned earlier, how does one go about finding a round-robin group in their area?

 

Rob

Round -robin,  NO WAY  After all three members in my club " me, myself & I " run trains and tinker with project trains, rolling stock and scenery we get hungry we go to RED ROBIN, they have killer burgers.

I guess you could say I'm a lone wolf.   Truck

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Posted by VunderBob on Wednesday, August 17, 2011 3:54 PM

Truck

 

 Rob_C:

 

Sorry if it was mentioned earlier, how does one go about finding a round-robin group in their area?

 

Rob

 

 

Round -robin,  NO WAY  After all three members in my club " me, myself & I " run trains and tinker with project trains, rolling stock and scenery we get hungry we go to RED ROBIN, they have killer burgers.

I guess you could say I'm a lone wolf.   Truck

Red Robin, yuck. However, Rule G in my book says: "Use of intoxicating or mood altering substances while operating this railroad is prohibited. Unless you bring enough for everyone."

<wink>

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Posted by Sailormatlac on Wednesday, August 17, 2011 4:20 PM

Any organization that grows past a certain point is bound to meet with mediocrity someday.


When we started what I call our "club", we were three. The reason because we associated our effort was because our interests were the same, the amount of work we wanted was also the same and we complemented each other... Then few people started to want to join us for different reasons... We thought: the more, the merrier and more ressources to expand the layout. It proved to be a big mistake... We lost control and felt things weren't going anywhere... It was a real slump...

 

When we went back to the three original founders, strangely, everything returned to normal and interest in the layout grew steadily.

Honestly, it's a hobby, a place where I can vent my frustration from the real world... The last place I want rules, bossy people and other annoying things...


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Posted by caldreamer on Wednesday, August 17, 2011 5:09 PM

I belonged to a numbe of clubes over the yers.  Too cloquish for me and like everyone hs seid : Do NOT BRING UP ANY IDEAS".  I am building  large (12 1/2 X 39 Ftoot) N scale lyout in my basement.  I will hve  selected number of people over for operating sessions.  I keep 1 steam engine on hand so I can tie anyone who tries to tell me what to do to the tracks and we each get a turn running him over just  like the old "Perils of Pauline slient movie".  RULE #1 ITS MY RAILROAD and On MY railoroad "I AM GOD!!!"..  RULE #2 ANY QUESTIONS  REFER TO RULE $1!!!.

 

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Posted by dbwv69 on Wednesday, August 17, 2011 11:07 PM

I've left two clubs for similar reasons. Lone wolf? Yep, that's me.

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Posted by richhotrain on Thursday, August 18, 2011 5:23 AM

aloco

Well, after about twenty-five years of being in a model railroad club, I've decided to call it quits.  It used to be fun, but now there are some members who act like they own the club and the club layout and they are bossing the rest of us around.  And I can't challenge them either.  Whenever I come up with any ideas or challenge theirs they talk to me like I'm stupid. When it gets to that point I figure it's time to leave.

aloco,

I have the same problem with my club - - - a 2 member club consisting of my wife and me.  The wife rarely, if ever, comes down to the basement layout and never runs trains. However, she is bossy, constantly talks to me like I am stupid, and makes a lot of suggestions such as "why don't you tear this thing down or at least make it smaller".   I like your idea of returning to lone wolf status, but I fear the repercussions of the dictatorial co-owner of the club.

Rich

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Posted by ClinchValleySD40 on Thursday, August 18, 2011 5:27 AM

Sorry to hear the club went south on you like that.   But like some others say, look to get with a round robin group.    We have a great one here in SE Michigan:

http://www.semichops.org/

Sharing the hobby with others is still the best part, IMHO.

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Posted by Comrad_Durandal on Thursday, August 18, 2011 12:47 PM

My problem is that in my area, no clubs seem to run N scale.  The closest club is a G and O scale club, they don't deal with anything smaller - even HO is too small.  Nice guys, but they are old enough to be my grandfather or great-grandfather.  The others are all HO only clubs, and the Ntrak group I tried to contact wasn't accepting new members at the time I inquired.

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Posted by rayw46 on Thursday, August 18, 2011 3:09 PM

Comrad_Durandal

My problem is that in my area, no clubs seem to run N scale.  The closest club is a G and O scale club, they don't deal with anything smaller - even HO is too small.  Nice guys, but they are old enough to be my grandfather or great-grandfather.  The others are all HO only clubs, and the Ntrak group I tried to contact wasn't accepting new members at the time I inquired.

Curious.  Ntrak is a modular concept with each member building their own module.  Since experience teaches us that not every member will attend every meeting or display their module at every show, one more member would not seem hurt; in fact it would seem to be an asset.  How can they not accept new members?  But it's their business and they can run it anyway they want.  However, remember that the Ntrak group is not a loose nit round robin group.  They are a club with rules and certain people who want to be the Big Engineer in Complete Charge.

Ray

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Posted by rayw46 on Thursday, August 18, 2011 3:10 PM

Comrad_Durandal

My problem is that in my area, no clubs seem to run N scale.  The closest club is a G and O scale club, they don't deal with anything smaller - even HO is too small.  Nice guys, but they are old enough to be my grandfather or great-grandfather.  The others are all HO only clubs, and the Ntrak group I tried to contact wasn't accepting new members at the time I inquired.

Curious.  Ntrak is a modular concept with each member building their own module.  Since experience teaches us that not every member will attend every meeting or display their module at every show, one more member would not seem hurt; in fact it would seem to be an asset.  How can they not accept new members?  But it's their business and they can run it anyway they want.  However, remember that the Ntrak group is not a loose nit round robin group.  They are a club with rules and certain people who want to be the Big Engineer in Complete Charge.

Ray

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