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I need all of you to say Prayer for my Dad he very sick in Hospital.

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Posted by espeefoamer on Friday, November 4, 2005 7:39 PM
I am sorry to hear of your loss. I know the pain,as my father passed away in 1982. I will be praying for you and your family.
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Posted by edblysard on Friday, November 4, 2005 7:57 PM
Ah,
But for the chance to die at home, in my own bed, surrounded by the ones I love...my family and friends.

Much better than meeting death in a sterile place, surrounded by strangers who know nothing of me, but only my illness.

If you honor your father, then heed the lessons he taught you, and keep him always in your heart.

As long as you do, he will never really be gone; a small part of him will live on in you...

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Posted by locomutt on Friday, November 4, 2005 8:23 PM
Conrailman, CW and I send you and your family our condolences.
Ed's advice is very good: as long as you keep your Dad in your
heart, and honor him, he'll always be with you.

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Posted by trainboyH16-44 on Friday, November 4, 2005 8:48 PM
Conrailman, I am very sorry to hear this, and I send my most heartfelt condolances.
And ditto on Ed, he is right on the mark.
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Posted by blhanel on Friday, November 4, 2005 9:35 PM
Conrailman, you definitely have our sympathies here, as we're going through the same thing. My wife's mother passed away Wednesday in her home. I'm praying for your family as well as my wife's family.
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Posted by conrailman on Saturday, November 5, 2005 12:16 AM
I will be Praying for Wife's Family too.
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Posted by eolafan on Saturday, November 5, 2005 9:25 AM
Conrailman, all I can say (other than to offer you and your family my condolances) is to urge you to always remember the good times and not any of the not so good like the recent weeks and your fond memories of Dad will carry you through these tough times. As others have said, your Dad was fortunate to pass in his own bed with loved ones surrounding him, and I hope and pray I will also be so fortunate some day myself.
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Posted by Anonymous on Saturday, November 5, 2005 9:36 AM
Conrailman, I just want to echo eolafan's message. Last Thanksgiving day, my father lost his battle with leukemia. Fortunately, my brother made it from Buffalo the day befroe so the whole family was together. Remembering the good times will help. It will take time but keep in mind the support of family and friends. They are there for you. I will keep your family in my prayers.
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Posted by Jordan6 on Saturday, November 5, 2005 5:03 PM
QUOTE: Originally posted by conrailman

My Dad Pass Way Today Nov.4, 2005 at 4:30 A.M. at Home with Family. I am very sad today. My Mom and Dad was Married for 48 Years and he worked for Conrail for 41 Years on the Railroad.

It's got to be tough, but keep remembering, he's in a much better place. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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Posted by Anonymous on Sunday, November 6, 2005 12:48 AM
I am so sorry to hear of your dad's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.

There are no words that will take away your pain. But please know, that we, your forum family, stand with you to comfort you and be your friends. It is never easy to lose a family member wether it be a person or even a house pet. It will take time to heal the pain but as time passes it will become easier to make it through each day. Don't dwell on the past but look forward to the future to meet with him in Heaven. Cherish every moment with your family now while you can. Don't forget your father, but try to remember the good times you and he had together.

Keep your chin up and look forward to each new day. We are with you in spirit as God's Holy Spirit ministers to you and your family.

My best wishes to you and yours.





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Posted by trainboyH16-44 on Sunday, November 6, 2005 3:27 PM
Well said, jim.

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Posted by conrailman on Tuesday, November 8, 2005 12:40 AM
We had a Beautiful Military Funeral for my Dad Russ Harris on Monday Nov. 7, 2005. Alot of People came to see my Dad, Former Conrail Workers and are Towns Former Police Chief and alot of other people. My Dad was So Loved in are Town in Blairsville, Pa, everyone Said my Dad was Greatest Guy they ever Met. It has been the toughest 3 days of my Life Being at the Funeral Home. I will Miss My Dad Very Very Much Now.
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Posted by conrailman on Sunday, November 27, 2005 12:24 AM
I would like to Thank everyone on this forum for their Support, Thoughts, and Prayers on Here.
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Posted by edblysard on Sunday, November 27, 2005 4:48 AM
You are more than welcome, young man.
It is good to see your name again.
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Posted by Modelcar on Sunday, November 27, 2005 6:40 AM
...I will include you in my thoughts as we stand and do prayers in church this morning.....Put your thoughts to our Lord now for strength....
{I am a former Pennsylvanian myself}....

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Posted by Anonymous on Sunday, November 27, 2005 10:12 AM
QUOTE: Originally posted by edblysard

You are more than welcome, young man.
It is good to see your name again.
Ed



It is good to see your name again. I am sorry you went through such a hard time, but now you know how you felt and can help comfort others in the future who come under the same circumstances.

Remember, many people on these forums exchange emails. Since you do not have your email listed, none of such could send you a personal condolence. But you are still welcome to email those of us who have our email listed. Many friendships are formed and strengthened through the avenue of email. Trust me, they open a new door for friends and friendships.

Take Care and God Bless

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Posted by bobwilcox on Sunday, November 27, 2005 10:41 AM
Conrailman:

May the peace of the Lord be with you!
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Posted by Anonymous on Sunday, November 27, 2005 11:16 AM
QUOTE: Originally posted by conrailman

My Dad Pass Way Today Nov.4, 2005 at 4:30 A.M. at Home with Family. I am very sad today. My Mom and Dad was Married for 48 Years and he worked for Conrail for 41 Years on the Railroad.


I'm not sure how I missed this thread in the past. CRman, I am saddened for you and your family upon the passing of your father. I feel certain that after a life of hard work on the railroad that he is in a better place...

May the peace of the season be with you...

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Posted by Anonymous on Sunday, November 27, 2005 11:52 AM
Let him rest with the greatest railroad on earth, Conrail [;)]
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Posted by josephandco on Monday, November 28, 2005 7:31 PM
I lost my uncle in the year 2000. He was very sick and was an invalid for serveral years.
So I know and understand what you are going through. May God bless your dad and he
will be in my prayers.
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Posted by AlcoRS11Nut on Monday, November 28, 2005 7:40 PM
QUOTE: Originally posted by conrailman

Today the Doctors can't do any more to my Dad because of weak condition, the Doctors said No Surgery for the Stomach Tumor, Bad Lungs, and Heart 30% working, he would Die on the Table, So we are bring him Home to Die in Peace and Family Love. He got few Days or 2 weeks left to live. Its going to be real hard without my Dad around House, Family Trip, and Going out to Eat alot. This is real hard time for Us, he will be in a Better place with God.
Thank You.



sorry man.......
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