QUOTE: Originally posted by Murphy Siding Um......had you considered trying to sort of limit yourself to talking about trains,since this is, after all, a train forum? I enjoy your train trivia posts. Most all of your posts that involve trains are interesting and entertaining too. However, when a post turns political,it generally turns ugly. You do have a choice to talk about trains, or fight the same fight, over and over about politics. The "he started it" defence by you, or anyone else is immature,at best. Let me clarify: there are hundreds of forums to argue poitics(or religion,or sports, or etc.....), there are fewer to talk about trains. So, let's talk trains. Thanks
QUOTE: Originally posted by Murphy Siding RPRiebe: I'm not quite sure I understand the comment about *odd*. My intent was / is to get posters (in this case Lotus098) to redirect focus back to trains. My goal in this is quite selfish: I wi***o read lots of info about trains and railroads.[:)]. For better or worse, I asked him to start a different thread, because sometimes these get so off-topic that I forget what the thread was about.[B)]. How are you coming on finding info on early export diesels?
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QUOTE: Originally posted by Murphy Siding QUOTE: Originally posted by Lotus098 Sure thing, Murphy Siding! Now lets talk trains! Start a thread about where you live, and what railroad operations are like there, and let this thread die.[xx(]
QUOTE: Originally posted by Lotus098 Sure thing, Murphy Siding! Now lets talk trains!
QUOTE: Originally posted by Murphy Siding QUOTE: Originally posted by Lotus098 No, not some enjoyment out of arguing, I just can't stand it when people start saying things totally oposed to the way our country was founded[:D]. Yeah, I believe it strongly[:)].[?] So why is it my fault, the ones who latched on like a pit bull, were jeaton, and vsmith[?] At that point I just refused to back down, though I could have dropped it.[}:)] You will notice at the end who started the real name calling.[xx(] Um......had you considered trying to sort of limit yourself to talking about trains,since this is, after all, a train forum? I enjoy your train trivia posts. Most all of your posts that involve trains are interesting and entertaining too. However, when a post turns political,it generally turns ugly. You do have a choice to talk about trains, or fight the same fight, over and over about politics. The "he started it" defence by you, or anyone else is immature,at best. Let me clarify: there are hundreds of forums to argue poitics(or religion,or sports, or etc.....), there are fewer to talk about trains. So, let's talk trains. Thanks
QUOTE: Originally posted by Lotus098 No, not some enjoyment out of arguing, I just can't stand it when people start saying things totally oposed to the way our country was founded[:D]. Yeah, I believe it strongly[:)].[?] So why is it my fault, the ones who latched on like a pit bull, were jeaton, and vsmith[?] At that point I just refused to back down, though I could have dropped it.[}:)] You will notice at the end who started the real name calling.[xx(]
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QUOTE: Originally posted by Big_Boy_4005 Guys, I love the popcorn smiley, but I have real mixed feelings about it's use. On the one hand it is an indication that you don't want to get involved in an ugly topic, but you are watching. On the other hand, each time you post to that topic, you bring it back to the top of the pile. So, while you are not directly contributing to the problem, you are indirectly perpetuating it. See the issue? We ( I mean that it is in everyone's best interest ) want problem topics to die, quickly and quietly. If we can't do it ourselves, we turn to Bergie, and he is appreciative, and responds quickly. The ultimate goal is that we need to learn to police ourselves. It would be much more constructive if you would simply say sonething like "Please stop, before there's more trouble", rather than egging it on with popcorn and beer. So, what do you say? Why not step up and be a good citizen in cyber space, and not leave it up to a few people to look like the bad guys.
QUOTE: Originally posted by IRONROOSTER [i] Ah yes[:D], but with just the printed word it's sometimes hard to tell. Enjoy Paul Yes, true. but it gets funny sometimes. I've been at this for a good while, and moderate other forums that I and my friends run lock stock and barrel... we set the rules, and generally rule #1 is that there i are no rules. Knowing each other like a book, some of the mods and i often take our difference to the next level, just for kicks we always end up being friends over it, cause we know it's all in fun. every once in a while, a tenderfooted newbie comes along, who is shocked at the level of heat on the air, and thinks they are going to be a peace maker. It's fun to play like that. Especially since a newbie will usually side with whichever of the 2 of us would be friendly to them first. So, you got this new guy thinking he's being GREAT and that he's on your side, so what you do? you get yout opponent to start beating up on him first, then, you turn against the meddeler, so it's the 2 moderators beating up on the new guy, acting like he started the whole "fight".. So, then the newbie usually starts whining about "doesn't this forum have any moderation?" Not realizing that he's been "moderated" for the past hour or so..... Lotta fun, and teaches a valuable lesson to people who need to mind their own business, but just cant seem to get over the hump[8D] Reply Edit CopCarSS Member sinceAugust 2002 From: Turner Junction 3,076 posts Posted by CopCarSS on Friday, October 21, 2005 4:30 PM Elliot, While I hear what you're saying, I also kind of agree with Chad. Perhaps with the Popcorn Smily the arguing parties can agree to just how silly it all is. A long time ago, in a galaxy far, far away I got involved in some real dusies over at Photo.net. There are a bunch of absolutists over there and arguing with them can get quite heated. In one of my threads, a British fellow gave me some advice. He said to look at it this way: "It's all a bit of crack, but some people take it seriously." Crack, as I understand it in the Irish English lexicon means something equivalent to fun or merriment. Sometimes I think that little pearl could be very true for this forum. I'll try to lay off the Popcorn and Beer a bit, but I can't guarantee that they'll always be left alone. Some threads just cry out for them...after all, It's all a bit of crack, but some people take it seriously! [;)] -ChrisWest Chicago, ILChristopher May Fine Art Photography"In wisdom gathered over time I have found that every experience is a form of exploration." ~Ansel Adams Reply chad thomas Member sinceJanuary 2005 From: Ely, Nv. 6,312 posts Posted by chad thomas on Friday, October 21, 2005 4:02 PM QUOTE: Originally posted by IRONROOSTER QUOTE: Originally posted by TheAntiGates ... What annoys me is when I am having a spirited debate (for example, with someone I've known for a while and know they are just as hard headed as I am, and we are having fun with each other) and someone totally removed from that friendship comes along and high handedly decides to insert themselves as moderator/peace maker. Ah yes[:D], but with just the printed word it's sometimes hard to tell. Enjoy Paul Which is exactly why we have smiles and popcorn eatin. To lighten things up.[;)] Reply IRONROOSTER Member sinceJune 2003 From: Culpeper, Va 8,204 posts Posted by IRONROOSTER on Friday, October 21, 2005 3:57 PM QUOTE: Originally posted by TheAntiGates ... What annoys me is when I am having a spirited debate (for example, with someone I've known for a while and know they are just as hard headed as I am, and we are having fun with each other) and someone totally removed from that friendship comes along and high handedly decides to insert themselves as moderator/peace maker. Ah yes[:D], but with just the printed word it's sometimes hard to tell. Enjoy Paul If you're having fun, you're doing it the right way. Reply Big_Boy_4005 Member sinceDecember 2003 From: St Paul, MN 6,218 posts Posted by Big_Boy_4005 on Friday, October 21, 2005 3:56 PM Guys, I love the popcorn smiley, but I have real mixed feelings about it's use. On the one hand it is an indication that you don't want to get involved in an ugly topic, but you are watching. On the other hand, each time you post to that topic, you bring it back to the top of the pile. So, while you are not directly contributing to the problem, you are indirectly perpetuating it. See the issue? We ( I mean that it is in everyone's best interest ) want problem topics to die, quickly and quietly. If we can't do it ourselves, we turn to Bergie, and he is appreciative, and responds quickly. The ultimate goal is that we need to learn to police ourselves. It would be much more constructive if you would simply say sonething like "Please stop, before there's more trouble", rather than egging it on with popcorn and beer. So, what do you say? Why not step up and be a good citizen in cyber space, and not leave it up to a few people to look like the bad guys. I'm back! Follow the progress: http://ogrforum.ogaugerr.com/displayForumTopic/content/12129987972340381/page/1 Reply Anonymous Member sinceApril 2003 305,205 posts Posted by Anonymous on Friday, October 21, 2005 3:23 PM QUOTE: Originally posted by Murphy Siding No,probably not,but some of us aren't above pointing out when some posters are being too serious or political.[;)]. I don't think you can keep politics out of railroading anymore than you can keep railroading out of politics I think that the primary cause of political discussion being dragged to the ugly, personal level, is when somone having a point of view that they are not entirely confident with is confronted with opposed opinion, it makes them feel like the opposed opinion is singling them out as being "wrong"...and that makes them become defensive. Maybe if they had a bigger "horn" they wouldn't feel so insecure? [;)] What annoys me is when I am having a spirited debate (for example, with someone I've known for a while and know they are just as hard headed as I am, and we are having fun with each other) and someone totally removed from that friendship comes along and high handedly decides to insert themselves as moderator/peace maker. Reply Edit vsmith Member sinceDecember 2001 From: Smoggy L.A. 10,743 posts Posted by vsmith on Friday, October 21, 2005 3:23 PM 1 Guinness Please! ...and some pretzels too...popcorn tastes lousy with beer! Have fun with your trains Reply Anonymous Member sinceApril 2003 305,205 posts Posted by Anonymous on Friday, October 21, 2005 3:21 PM Cop Car SS, glad I wasn't alone. Reply Edit chad thomas Member sinceJanuary 2005 From: Ely, Nv. 6,312 posts Posted by chad thomas on Friday, October 21, 2005 2:51 PM Well Chris, I'm a loyoal Steel Reserve drinker but if you're buying I'm down with whatever you got. .....The no comment comment.[;)] lurker's choice. [:D] Reply CopCarSS Member sinceAugust 2002 From: Turner Junction 3,076 posts Posted by CopCarSS on Friday, October 21, 2005 2:41 PM Ahhhh...good...I thought I was going to have popcorn withdrawl. Brought in a keg of Blue Moon this time, Chad. You like Wheat Ales? James, I will chime in with a couple bits of advice. I was once in your shoes, and shared your enthusiasm. In fact, I still do, but just don't get as animated about it. I like to think of myself as an independent with conservative leanings. However, one president that I have a tremendous amount of respect for was the first, and in my opinion, best Republican president, Abraham Lincoln. If you get a chance, study Lincoln's written works, and especially his debates. He was quite the wordsmith. He could get his point across like few other men in the history of our great country. Instead of yelling and slinging personal attacks, try emulating Lincoln sometime. Discussions will be better, and your words will carry a lot more weight. Above all, don't lose your interest in history, or your belief in our great country. If only all of the younger populus shared your passions. Oh yeah, once in awhile, it's OK to grab some popcorn, and a pop (I'll share the suds with you when you're old enough), and watch the discussion. Sometimes the best way to learn is to keep your mouth shut (or eating) and ears open. Best of luck to you. -ChrisWest Chicago, ILChristopher May Fine Art Photography"In wisdom gathered over time I have found that every experience is a form of exploration." ~Ansel Adams Reply Mookie Member sinceJune 2001 From: US 13,488 posts Posted by Mookie on Friday, October 21, 2005 2:23 PM And I missed all the excitement ....again! She who has no signature! cinscocom-tmw Reply Big_Boy_4005 Member sinceDecember 2003 From: St Paul, MN 6,218 posts Posted by Big_Boy_4005 on Friday, October 21, 2005 2:22 PM QUOTE: Originally posted by vsmith I'm lurking in the shadow's...hehehehe Yes Vic, but no popcorn?[:p][:D][;)] Around here that seems to be the lurker's trademark. The no comment, comment. I'm back! Follow the progress: http://ogrforum.ogaugerr.com/displayForumTopic/content/12129987972340381/page/1 Reply Big_Boy_4005 Member sinceDecember 2003 From: St Paul, MN 6,218 posts Posted by Big_Boy_4005 on Friday, October 21, 2005 2:18 PM Antonio good buddy, you didn't have to fess up on this one, I was perfectly willing to take the heat, but thanks. [swg] See James, it isn't just me.[;)] I'm back! Follow the progress: http://ogrforum.ogaugerr.com/displayForumTopic/content/12129987972340381/page/1 Reply vsmith Member sinceDecember 2001 From: Smoggy L.A. 10,743 posts Posted by vsmith on Friday, October 21, 2005 2:11 PM I'm lurking in the shadow's...hehehehe Have fun with your trains Reply AntonioFP45 Member sinceDecember 2003 From: Good ol' USA 9,642 posts Posted by AntonioFP45 on Friday, October 21, 2005 2:03 PM James, Big_Boy_4005 I emailed Bergie about the Amtrak topic just after I had posted about the flaming. Guys, As Big Boy has stated many times before........we are all equal here!! [:)][:D] The number of stars forum members have does not connote rank on this forum. Bottom Line: If a topic is getting out of hand with flaming torpedoes flying left and right, then the right thing to do is to E-Mail Bergie and let him know. He will lock it, or delete it. If the topic is "OK" then he will leave it be. At times, he will even chime in with a comment. [;)] I've noticed though that a number of us will allow flaming to go on and on. Yes, it can be entertaining and I've even been a spectator. But come on, when things get personal and offensive it's time to say something about it. This forum is respected and has a great reputation. IMHO, it's a cut above the many other railroading related forums......... So, why let flaming push it down to the toilet level? Peace and High Greens, crew. "I like my Pullman Standards & Budds in Stainless Steel flavors, thank you!" Reply 12 Join our Community! Our community is FREE to join. To participate you must either login or register for an account. Login » Register » Search the Community Newsletter Sign-Up By signing up you may also receive occasional reader surveys and special offers from Trains magazine.Please view our privacy policy More great sites from Kalmbach Media Terms Of Use | Privacy Policy | Copyright Policy
[i] Ah yes[:D], but with just the printed word it's sometimes hard to tell. Enjoy Paul
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QUOTE: Originally posted by IRONROOSTER QUOTE: Originally posted by TheAntiGates ... What annoys me is when I am having a spirited debate (for example, with someone I've known for a while and know they are just as hard headed as I am, and we are having fun with each other) and someone totally removed from that friendship comes along and high handedly decides to insert themselves as moderator/peace maker. Ah yes[:D], but with just the printed word it's sometimes hard to tell. Enjoy Paul
QUOTE: Originally posted by TheAntiGates ... What annoys me is when I am having a spirited debate (for example, with someone I've known for a while and know they are just as hard headed as I am, and we are having fun with each other) and someone totally removed from that friendship comes along and high handedly decides to insert themselves as moderator/peace maker.
QUOTE: Originally posted by Murphy Siding No,probably not,but some of us aren't above pointing out when some posters are being too serious or political.[;)].
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QUOTE: Originally posted by vsmith I'm lurking in the shadow's...hehehehe
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