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Posted by Euclid on Sunday, August 30, 2015 9:51 AM
I don’t see why hairs are being split over whether this was about race.  Early on, it was dubbed “Laughing When Black.”  That makes it only about race.  I can understand why nobody likes being humiliated, but the book club had been defiant and refused to follow the wine train rules.
 
Just because alcohol is served, it doesn’t mean that there can be no rules of behavior.  From these basic reported facts, I conclude that the book club is at least partly at fault for the humiliation of being ejected from the train.    
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Posted by NKP guy on Sunday, August 30, 2015 11:10 AM

   May I add my two cents worth on this topic?  

   As I understand it members of the book club were in one car and getting loud ("boisterous") and the crew was getting complaints from a few other people in the same car.  Since the book club members numbered about 50, how many other people could there have possibly been in that car?

   Wouldn't common sense dictate that those few who are doing the objecting be themselves offered seats (and maybe a free drink, if you want to be generous) in another, quieter car?  This train is a business.  If it were my train, I'd do everything I could to get that book club to book again for next year and the next year.  I would do what I could to make them happy and repeat customers in the future.  Clubs have a way of doing that; they find a place they like and they go there again.  Consider, too, that some of those book club customers might return with their families and friends or tell others about their happy experience.  

   Now, what about those few disgruntled passengers who were offered a quiet place in another car?  Especially if they were given a free drink and an apology (from the conductor?) about being moved, I think they would be happy.  Being individuals and not a group, my guess is they would have less probability of returning in the first place, but the extra hospitality would leave a good taste in their collective mouth, as it were.

   This incident might have been entirely avoided if the employees were more devoted to creating repeat customers than making sure the rules were strictly enforced.  Consequently, I fear this marvelous wine train, this wonderful asset to the Napa Valley, this money-making business, will be severely damaged in many ways by the narrow-minded thinking that rules matter more than customers.  

   As for the damages and awards in court, my guess is this will be settled long before a trial is set.  The book club members will get something, but not anywhere near what their attorney naturally says would be a sufficient amount.

   Race may or may not have played a part.  But as anyone who watches daytime TV can attest, groups of females enjoying themselves make a lot of racket, much more so, in my opinion, than men.  Want to bet that the complainers in the car and the member of the crew who made the unfortunate call were male?  

   People, we all have to get a little more sensitive to the sensibilities of other people these days.  Customers have lots of options for their dollar.  I'd want to impress those points upon my employees, especially if I ran a wine train and wanted groups of passengers to come and return again.

 

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Posted by BaltACD on Sunday, August 30, 2015 11:56 AM

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Well put.  The Wine Train staff seriously mishandled the entire situation and then to compound the mishandling, the put the incident on social media.

In today's world, social media has basically replaced the 'Society Pages' of every cities daily fish wrapper.  Amtrak certainly doesn't issue a posting on every 'unruly passenger' that they have police assistance in removing from their trains; unless it ends up on the Podunk Gazette's police activity report column.

Wine Train personnel need more training in how to EFFECTIVELY handle situations to bring about best possible feelings for the Wine Train for the highest number of customers.

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Posted by tdmidget on Sunday, August 30, 2015 12:37 PM

You don't read very well, do you? There were not 50 in the party, there were 11.

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Posted by Convicted One on Sunday, August 30, 2015 12:39 PM

Euclid
From these basic reported facts, I conclude that the book club is at least partly at fault for the humiliation of being ejected from the train.

 

One thing in particular that amuses me is, I encounter abusive control-obsessed types all the time. Many of them are unemployed. many more still are employed, and more than a small percentage manage to find their way into positions of authority.

 

That's just life. You deal with it.  If I feel I've been abused at a store, or a restaurant for example, and no remedy is forthcoming, I make sure that the offending establishment never sees the green of my dollar, again. But, there is no way to eliminate all the jerks in society, (god must love jerks, he made so many of them etc.) It's just an unfortunate facet of human nature.

From my perspective, what i'm seeing is that many among the black community seem to think that their skin color somehow exempts them from having to deal with this aspect of human nature, by exploiting this nations sensitivity and inability to address racial matters on a level playing field.

The system has been made up such that the low hanging fruit is to play the "R" card.

 

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Posted by Semper Vaporo on Sunday, August 30, 2015 12:48 PM

They need to separate their "socializing" from their "job".  One shoud NEVER consider posting comments about their work or employer on a "social" website.  It is too easy to violate someone's privacy, divulge personal info, or violate a confidentialality clause concerning their employment.  But I suppose that would leave a lot of folk with nothing to say on the internet!!!

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Posted by NKP guy on Sunday, August 30, 2015 12:52 PM

tdmidget:  You are absolutely correct.  I'm not sure where that number (50) came from and I failed to double-check it.

But I still stand by what I wrote previously:  People (customers) matter more than rules, especially when those rules are arbitrary (who is to say what exactly "boisterous" is).

I do read well.  However, I sometimes fail to remember well.

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Posted by csxns on Sunday, August 30, 2015 1:10 PM

Convicted One
From my perspective, what i'm seeing is that many among the black community seem to think that their skin color somehow exempts them from having to deal with this aspect of human nature, by exploiting this nations sensitivity and inability to address racial matters on a level playing field. The system has been made up such that the low hanging fruit is to play the "R" card.

110% true.

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Posted by wanswheel on Sunday, August 30, 2015 1:14 PM
The oldest ‘sistah’ is 83, and she probably remembers 1947 like it was yesterday.
I read in the papers about the Freedom Train
I heard on the radio about the Freedom Train
I seen folks talking about the Freedom Train
Lord, I've been a-waitin for the Freedom Train!
Washington, Richmond, Durham, Chatanooga, Atlanta
Way cross Georgia.
Lord, Lord, Lord
Way down in Dixie the only trains I see's
Got a Jim-Crow coaches set aside for me.
I hope their ain't no Jim Crow on the Freedom Train,
No back door entrance to the Freedom Train,
No sign FOR COLORED on the Freedom Train,
No WHITE FOLKS ONLY on the Freedom Train.
I'm gonna check up.
I'm gonna to check up on this
Freedom Train.
Who is the engineer on the Freedom Train?
Can a coal-black man drive the Freedom Train?
Or am I still a porter on the Freedom Train?
Is there ballot boxes on the Freedom Train?
Do colored folks vote on the Freedom Train?
When it stops in Mississippi, will it be made plain
Everybody's got a right to board the Freedom Train?
I'm gonna check up.
I'm gonna to check up on this
Freedom Train.
The Birmingham station's marked COLORED and WHITE.
The white folks go left
The colored go right.
They even got a segregated lane.
Is that the way to get aboard the Freedom Train?
I'm gonna check up.
I'm gonna to check up on this
Freedom Train.
If my children ask me, Daddy, please explain
Why a Jim Crow stations for the Freedom Train?
What shall I tell my children?
You tell me, cause freedom ain't freedom when a man ain't free.
My brother named Jimmy died at Anzio
He died for real, and it wasn't no show.
Is this here freedom on the Freedom Train really freedom or a show again?
Now let the Freedom Train come zooming down the track
Gleaming in the sunlight for white and black
Not stoppin' at no stations marked COLORED nor WHITE,
Just stoppin' in the fields in the broad daylight,
Stoppin' in the country in the wide-open air
Where there never was a Jim Crow sign nowhere,
And No Lilly-White Committees, politicians of note,
Nor poll tax layer through which colored can't vote
And there won't be no kinda color lines
The Freedom Train will be yours
And mine.
Then maybe from their graves in Anzio
Black men and white will say, We want it so!
Black men and white will say, Ain't it fine?
At home they got a Freedom train,
A Freedom train,
That's yours and mine!
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Posted by zugmann on Sunday, August 30, 2015 2:11 PM

Semper Vaporo

They need to separate their "socializing" from their "job".  One shoud NEVER consider posting comments about their work or employer on a "social" website.  It is too easy to violate someone's privacy, divulge personal info, or violate a confidentialality clause concerning their employment.  But I suppose that would leave a lot of folk with nothing to say on the internet!!!

 

 

It would make this forum boring as crap.

It's been fun.  But it isn't much fun anymore.   Signing off for now. 


  

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Posted by samfp1943 on Sunday, August 30, 2015 2:35 PM

zugmann
 
Semper Vaporo

They need to separate their "socializing" from their "job".  One shoud NEVER consider posting comments about their work or employer on a "social" website.  It is too easy to violate someone's privacy, divulge personal info, or violate a confidentialality clause concerning their employment.  But I suppose that would leave a lot of folk with nothing to say on the internet!!!

 

 

 

 

"It would make this forum boring as crap."

 

It is the eclectic nature of the group that 'post' on thses Forums that make it pretty interesting, and worthwhile to follow  IMHO !  It is the very diversness of the answers to questions asked or stated that makes for interesting reading.

 SoapBox       Today's Society is too much into what amounts to "Political Correctness", which would seem to be, in my opinion, the Minorities attempting to control the thoughts, and speech of the Majorities.   Society's loss is the lack of diversness of speech and exchange of ideas. Civility is lost as one segment of Society attempt to bully other segments by making light of the positions and issues of others.  Bang Head

 

 


 

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Posted by schlimm on Sunday, August 30, 2015 2:51 PM

BaltACD

^

Well put.  The Wine Train staff seriously mishandled the entire situation and then to compound the mishandling, the put the incident on social media.

In today's world, social media has basically replaced the 'Society Pages' of every cities daily fish wrapper.  Amtrak certainly doesn't issue a posting on every 'unruly passenger' that they have police assistance in removing from their trains; unless it ends up on the Podunk Gazette's police activity report column.

Wine Train personnel need more training in how to EFFECTIVELY handle situations to bring about best possible feelings for the Wine Train for the highest number of customers.

 

Also well put.  From what the CEO said, it seems that some form of additional training will be given to NVWT personnel.   Perhaps they could start with two mottos of retail founders:   "Give the lady what she wants" -Marshall Field; and "The customer is always right" - Harry Selfridge. 

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Posted by zugmann on Sunday, August 30, 2015 3:10 PM

schlimm
Also well put. From what the CEO said, it seems that some form of additional training will be given to NVWT personnel. Perhaps they could start with two mottos of retail founders: "Give the lady what she wants" -Marshall Field; and "The customer is always right" - Harry Selfridge.

 

Isn't the first time where someone goes a little overboard when they think they have a little authority.  (we've seen it in the past on this very forum with certain past moderators).

Yeah, timing played a big part in why this is national news.  Doesn't make it any more right or wrong, though.  Just more visible.

It's been fun.  But it isn't much fun anymore.   Signing off for now. 


  

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Posted by gardendance on Sunday, August 30, 2015 10:50 PM

NKP guy

tdmidget:  You are absolutely correct.  I'm not sure where that number (50) came from and I failed to double-check it.

 

The company also promised additional training for employees on cultural diversity and sensitivity, and they offered the group free passes for 50 people for a future trip.

Read more at http://www.philly.com/philly/news/nation_world/20150825_ap_ca23d5cebe5d417084a5f5ed3123534a.html#3szppOxtOm2mtGms.99

 

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Posted by Euclid on Monday, August 31, 2015 9:24 AM
I can see the predicament that the wine train was apparently confronted with.  It is not as simple as “The customer is always right” because the conflict was between two factions of customers.  If you give one faction what they want, the other faction goes away.  
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Posted by Convicted One on Monday, August 31, 2015 1:54 PM

Euclid
If you give one faction what they want, the other faction goes away.  hires a lawyer

 

 

there...."fixed".

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Posted by droughtquake on Monday, August 31, 2015 11:03 PM

csxns

 

 
tree68
group lacked the civility to respect their fellow passengers

 

Thank you.

 

 

Different cultures have different social rules.

 

Other groups might find your actions and behaviors to be offensive. Why do you think you have the right to impose your 'social contract' on others?

Additionally, there were nearly a dozen women in their party. They were excited to be experiencing something new. Not all the women are Black.

Some of the other (white) passengers couldn't understand why the women were being singled out. They said the women weren't doing anything wrong.

The party was forced to walk the entire length of the train to disembark. The police who were waiting for them on the platform seem confused as to why they were called.

This was a group of middle-aged women in a book club. It's not like they were gangsters or anarchists. They are a respectable group who were having an interesting outing.

The women see this as an example of lack of respect; the Wine Train management doesn't seem to understand that and wonders why their weak attempts to mollify the group have been rejected. The Wine Train (and many others) need to take a step back and really listen to what the women are saying. They've been very calm and clear about their view of the issue.

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Posted by The Butler on Sunday, September 20, 2015 2:40 AM

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Posted by Euclid on Sunday, September 20, 2015 7:52 AM
droughtquake
 Different cultures have different social rules.

 

Other groups might find your actions and behaviors to be offensive. Why do you think you have the right to impose your 'social contract' on others?

Additionally, there were nearly a dozen women in their party. They were excited to be experiencing something new. Not all the women are Black.

Some of the other (white) passengers couldn't understand why the women were being singled out. They said the women weren't doing anything wrong.

The party was forced to walk the entire length of the train to disembark. The police who were waiting for them on the platform seem confused as to why they were called.

This was a group of middle-aged women in a book club. It's not like they were gangsters or anarchists. They are a respectable group who were having an interesting outing.

The women see this as an example of lack of respect; the Wine Train management doesn't seem to understand that and wonders why their weak attempts to mollify the group have been rejected. The Wine Train (and many others) need to take a step back and really listen to what the women are saying. They've been very calm and clear about their view of the issue.

 

The wine train has the right to impose their social contract on their patrons.  Why did the women think they had the right to defy the social contract of the wine train and impose their own social contract on the wine train?  The women may have been very calm and clear about their view of the issue, as you say, but their view is wrong.    
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Posted by schlimm on Sunday, September 20, 2015 9:04 AM

Euclid
 
droughtquake
 Different cultures have different social rules.

 

Other groups might find your actions and behaviors to be offensive. Why do you think you have the right to impose your 'social contract' on others?

Additionally, there were nearly a dozen women in their party. They were excited to be experiencing something new. Not all the women are Black.

Some of the other (white) passengers couldn't understand why the women were being singled out. They said the women weren't doing anything wrong.

The party was forced to walk the entire length of the train to disembark. The police who were waiting for them on the platform seem confused as to why they were called.

This was a group of middle-aged women in a book club. It's not like they were gangsters or anarchists. They are a respectable group who were having an interesting outing.

The women see this as an example of lack of respect; the Wine Train management doesn't seem to understand that and wonders why their weak attempts to mollify the group have been rejected. The Wine Train (and many others) need to take a step back and really listen to what the women are saying. They've been very calm and clear about their view of the issue.

 

 

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Euclid
 
droughtquake
 Different cultures have different social rules.

 

Other groups might find your actions and behaviors to be offensive. Why do you think you have the right to impose your 'social contract' on others?

Additionally, there were nearly a dozen women in their party. They were excited to be experiencing something new. Not all the women are Black.

Some of the other (white) passengers couldn't understand why the women were being singled out. They said the women weren't doing anything wrong.

The party was forced to walk the entire length of the train to disembark. The police who were waiting for them on the platform seem confused as to why they were called.

This was a group of middle-aged women in a book club. It's not like they were gangsters or anarchists. They are a respectable group who were having an interesting outing.

The women see this as an example of lack of respect; the Wine Train management doesn't seem to understand that and wonders why their weak attempts to mollify the group have been rejected. The Wine Train (and many others) need to take a step back and really listen to what the women are saying. They've been very calm and clear about their view of the issue.

 

 

The wine train has the right to impose their social contract on their patrons.  Why did the women think they had the right to defy the social contract of the wine train and impose their own social contract on the wine train?  The women may have been very calm and clear about their view of the issue, as you say, but their view is wrong.    
 

Euclid:  You seem to lack any comprehension of what is the culture of a reasonably classy retail business.  Rule #1: The customer is right, meaning a smart manager generally defers to the customers.

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Posted by Euclid on Sunday, September 20, 2015 10:03 AM

schlimm
 
Euclid said:
The wine train has the right to impose their social contract on their patrons.  Why did the women think they had the right to defy the social contract of the wine train and impose their own social contract on the wine train?  The women may have been very calm and clear about their view of the issue, as you say, but their view is wrong.    
 

 

Euclid:  You seem to lack any comprehension of what is the culture of a reasonably classy retail business.  Rule #1: The customer is right, meaning a smart manager generally defers to the customers.

 

 

There are limits to “The customer is always right.”  One limit is that a business cannot allow a customer to disturb or degrade the experience of the other customers.  To that end, businesses do control the behavior of their customers. 

 

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Posted by csxns on Sunday, September 20, 2015 11:03 AM

Euclid
There are limits to “The customer is always right.”

110% true.

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Posted by Anonymous on Sunday, September 20, 2015 4:06 PM

Euclid

 

 
schlimm
 
Euclid said:
The wine train has the right to impose their social contract on their patrons.  Why did the women think they had the right to defy the social contract of the wine train and impose their own social contract on the wine train?  The women may have been very calm and clear about their view of the issue, as you say, but their view is wrong.    
 

 

Euclid:  You seem to lack any comprehension of what is the culture of a reasonably classy retail business.  Rule #1: The customer is right, meaning a smart manager generally defers to the customers.

 

 

 

 

There are limits to “The customer is always right.”  One limit is that a business cannot allow a customer to disturb or degrade the experience of the other customers.  To that end, businesses do control the behavior of their customers. 

 

 

I'd definately agree with this statement.

 

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Posted by Electroliner 1935 on Sunday, September 20, 2015 4:42 PM

My experience was at a Pappadeaux Seafood Kitchen near Oakbrook, IL. This is a very upscale ($$$) New Oleans themed seafood restaurant  We were celebrating a birthday and our party of eight was seated at a table in a separate room from the main dining room with another group of about twelve who were having some kind of a celebration. They were black and were having a good time. They were too loud for us to have a conversation at our table. They were not talking to us and we did not talk to them. We asked our server if there was any other place we could be seated in the restaurant that was quieter. They did and we were moved. Issue solved. The restaurant did not have to impose on the other group to restrain their enthusiasm and the remained in the room by themselves. 

On the Napa Valley Wine Train, I don't know how fully booked the train was and whether space was available to provide separation but when a party gets so loud that it becomes too loud for others to sustain a conversation, then the loud party is creating a nuisance and the crew may have been justified in their actions. 

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