hey guys,
i've been saveing up for a camra so i can take some pics when i go railfannig. i haven't bought it yet but my dad said i can use his camra in the mean time. we only live 2 min from the tracks and i told my mom that me and my dad were going to go railfanning but she said "no" it's too dangerouse i told her i won't get closer than 50 feet and she still ressisted have any suggestions on how to sofften her up? thanks
-jake
huh? and thanks but i'm not new.
That's the answer. Let 'em go with you a few times, they see you behaving, they get bored and tell you to go by yourself.
As long as your not near the tracks thats cool. Take your mom with you like posted before,and show her you can be safe.
Heck make a contract with her. put in it you wont go nearer than 50 feet ( this is a great idea as a piece of banding bouncing along will take your head off )youll only railfan in certain areas ( ones that dont have crack houses nearby and gang shootings) and anything else youd like to add. If you break it you are banned for a few months or whatever.
As a working rail I dont mind railfans if they are being safe. I have seen some at Pequot Illinois that always wave and its a father and son. Seen a ton at Toluca filming and they are way back. Never had a problem with any of them. I actually try to wavew back ( when i see them) and yell hi.A good fan will call the ds when your train is having an issue. will give you a ride to the rear and make you feel like a rockstar.
So give her some time,be honest, adn most of all show her how much your hobby means to you. I would love to know my kids are having a good time doing something nice and legal then worry about them being in trouble.
Yes we are on time but this is yesterdays train