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How do I get my passion for trains back????!

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How do I get my passion for trains back????!
Posted by Anonymous on Saturday, July 9, 2005 10:47 PM
Hello everyone,
From February to April this year, I was busy doing other things than trains in the time I (if I had had a choice) normally alot to them. As a consequence, my obsession with trains is untouched, but I have lost some of my passion for them. In other words, I will still wait in the cold for hours for one train, but my underlying reasons for that have become less pronounced. THIS IS NOT GOOD! Anybody have any idea of how to remedy this situation? Any help would be most appreciated.

Sincerely,
Daniel Parks
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Posted by fuzzybroken on Saturday, July 9, 2005 11:39 PM
If the things that you are doing instead of train watching are more important, by all means, DO THEM! The sooner you get those "priorities" taken care of, the less they will weigh on your mind and the more you'll be able to think of rail-related subjects.

On the other hand, if you find yourself drifting away from trains to doing other ridiculously unimportant things, maybe all you need to do is refocus on a different aspect of your hobby. For example, at one time I was primarily into model railroading, but in the last few years I have refocused my interest on photography, which in turn has turned into a relatively successful website!

Or, heck, maybe you just need a little break! Nothing wrong with that, some good may still come of it!

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Posted by Anonymous on Saturday, July 9, 2005 11:50 PM
Daniel,

Many people who have been into this hobby for years have had the same thing happen. Its very common.

FB brings up some good points.

Jim
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Posted by fuzzybroken on Sunday, July 10, 2005 1:13 AM
Looking at this one again, I saw the comment about the UP... Here's a related story...

I was beginning to wonder if the UP was running any trains through Milwaukee, as I had neither seen nor heard any whenever I was near their tracks for a few weeks! Well, finally, I spotted headlights as I was crossing the tracks, and after a quick U-turn and a little zig-zagging, I was all set up and ready to get pictures of the train. Definitely worth the wait too, as the lead unit was an ex-CNW C40-8 with wings on the nose, and the trailing units were both leasers. Also in the train were some interesting freight cars, like the ex-"CNW" ALAB boxcar, some ARMN/UP "Building America" reefers, and a CN "website" cylindrical hopper! Definitely a cool find! So,
QUOTE: The good old Union Pacific...lost but.- Wait a minute-it's still here, isn't it.


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Posted by selector on Sunday, July 10, 2005 1:26 AM
Probably the best thing for you to do is to accept that this has happened, and to accept that it is natural.

You had an intercession that has refocused your attention, and maybe realigned your priorities. However, in an attempt to regain some 'normalcy' after this trying interlude, you have looked to old habits and cues for comfort and reinforcement. They no longer have the potency that they once had. So, as Fuzzy wisely suggests, skip down another path for a while. Don't fret. You will come to this crossroads again, and happily return to what once sparked your interest. Either way, look at it as an opportunity for growth.
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Posted by daveklepper on Sunday, July 10, 2005 4:52 AM
Do you read train books and magazines? What is your favorite railroad? Do you know its history? Are you familiar with the type of equipment in used a hundred years ago? There is a lot to this industry than just waiting to photograph todays intermodal or whatever. Also, there are some great videos available. Have you seen any that concern your favorite railroad?
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Posted by adrianspeeder on Sunday, July 10, 2005 5:30 AM
Try something different I guess. Dad and I were getting tired of just playing with late model trucks dealing with computer and expensive parts issues, that we just went out and bought a 1966 F250 truck. Something we could get excited about.

Random related quote...

"If you always do what you always did, you will always get what you always got."

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Posted by spbed on Sunday, July 10, 2005 7:39 AM
Look up my web site? [:o)][:p]


Originally posted by trainjunky29

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Posted by Anonymous on Sunday, July 10, 2005 9:12 AM
"Absence makes the heart grow fonder." Draw back a little and you'll start to feel which aspects of the hobby you were doing out of habit and obligation -- and maybe just luck into new aspects of trains that you weren't ready for before.

Good luck!

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Posted by Anonymous on Sunday, July 10, 2005 2:36 PM
Dear everyone,
Thank you all for your advice.

Sincerely,
Daniel Parks
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Posted by Anonymous on Sunday, July 10, 2005 3:37 PM
Getting you passion back depends on why you were passionate in the first place. Are you interesting in a single railroad that's now gone? If so try visiting some other railroad and see if it gets you going. Are you into photography? Then try looking thru a book of really good photos and see if any of them inspire you. Is it getting to be a hassle to reach trackside (a problem I have since it takes me an hour to get free of Chicago's suburbamania), well that's just a grin and bear it situation. Tere is always the chance though that for whatever reason the passion is just gone and it's time to move on. Over the years I've had this happen a few times, but I've always come back to trains.

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Posted by Junctionfan on Sunday, July 10, 2005 5:14 PM
Try to go on a vacation to a high density train action area like Rosenberg,Texas; Fostoria, Ohio; Deshler, Ohio; Galesberg Illinois or Rochelle Park.

I was like that for a time and ever since I was at Fostoria, I wish I was back. I don't suppose one can emmigrate to the U.S because you want to railfan Fostoria more often?[(-D]
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Posted by espeefoamer on Sunday, July 10, 2005 5:25 PM
Build a time machine and visit your favorite railroad 50 years ago[;)].
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Posted by bbrant on Sunday, July 10, 2005 5:49 PM
Maybe you could try viewing trains from another perspective. If you're photographing or modeling a busy mainline, then switch to noting the operations of a branchline or shortline. I was kind of in the same boat. Taking pics along a busy mainline got to be, well, predictable and mundane. I started to focus on a shortline in my area which added a much needed spark. Because the trains ran less frequently, seeing one was more rewarding than provided by a mainline.

I've since moved and have a CSX branchline running through my town. It connects with the busy CSX Keystone Sub (better known as the line over Sand Patch) yet I'll gladly watch a train going over this line compaired to one over Sand Patch. Getting to watch the switching moves is quite a change from just a mainline freight hustling along the way.

One other thing that may help....get to talk to some acutal railroaders who work your favorite line or work for your favorite RR. It may be hard to do but certainly not impossible. Hearing stories from their perspective of actually working for the RR are great to listen to as they often have some valuable information to share.

Good luck and hope this was some help to you.
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Posted by Anonymous on Sunday, July 10, 2005 11:28 PM
QUOTE: Originally posted by espeefoamer

Build a time machine and visit your favorite railroad 50 years ago[;)].


Dear espeefoamer,
I've been thinking about this. By my calculations, if you combine a clock with a builder's plate in a particle accelerator....
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Posted by CopCarSS on Monday, July 11, 2005 8:32 AM
Trainjunky,

My advice would be to head to a steam-powered museum, if there is one in your area. Even small steam locomotives present a charm that has yet to be reporduced by any other man made contraption.

Another idea is a weekend railfan trip. Someplace not desperately far away, but beyond the scope of your normal railroad haunts. For me, this would mean a trip to the Cumbres & Toltec, Durango & Silverton, etc. If there's something like that in your area, I can all but guarantee you'll get hooked again.

And if not, I guess its not meant to be. Figure out what you do enjoy now, and pursue that. I kind of do the same thing. One week I'll be a die hard railfan, the next a Rocky Mountain hiker, the next a model railroader, the next a macro photographer, the next a large format photogrpaher, etc.

Good with your endeavors, wherever they lead you!

-Chris
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Posted by Anonymous on Tuesday, July 12, 2005 12:59 AM
Dear everyone,
Thank you very much for your advice.

Sincerely,
Daniel Parks
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Posted by Gluefinger on Tuesday, July 12, 2005 4:10 PM
Here's an idea- see if there is a local railroad museum that you can volunteer at. You can meet a lot of good people and have a good time, while exploring a different aspect of railroading.
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Posted by Anonymous on Tuesday, July 12, 2005 6:34 PM
Dear Chris,
Sorry, I already do (Orange Empire Railway Museum steam crew).
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Posted by Anonymous on Tuesday, July 12, 2005 9:12 PM
I heard about a model railroad layout that has a scale pharmaceutical firm at trackside. Maybe they've got a product that'll fire up that passion . . . but watch out for the Sydifex!
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Posted by Tulyar15 on Thursday, July 14, 2005 7:08 AM
I think the consensus here is to perhaps move on to a different aspect of the hobby. That's the great thing about it - there's so much to explore.

I mentioned on another thread that back in the 1970's when I was a teenage I used to enjoy loco spotting and having different classes for haulage. But nowadays in Britain there are hardly any loco hauled passenger trains left. While I go on special trains from time I'm becoming more interested in foreign countries where there's more variety to be found. I guess it's an ongoing journey, like life itself.
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Posted by Anonymous on Thursday, July 14, 2005 4:06 PM
I have to commend the erudition and sensitivity which the vast majority of posters have shown the man who initiated this topic. It's good to know that the railfan community contains so many helpful and kind people.

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