I was a senior in high school, in the language lab when the announcement was made by the principal that the President had been shot in Dallas. Since our school was overcrowded and it was my last class, I left with a friend (who had a car) and drove home and turned on the TV. A cold, dreary day in Chicago. A real turning point for my baby boomer generation.
I was 7 on that day, in elementary school in a suburban cleveland. I remember that day as clear as a bell. We were sent home, the walk home as surreal as the rest if the day would become. The day mark the beginning of a trio of violent shooting that would leave JFK, his brother and MLK dead.
The sixites was a decade of so many good things, but defined by violence, protests and change.
Thanks for your rememberence of that tragic day David, you told it well.
Rest in peace JFK, and your brothers who fell after you.
It is an anonomous friend's memory, not mine. A friend who also moved to Israel.
But I can inform you of my memory. I was working at a Baptist church somewhere in Virginia, N. or S. Carolina. It may have been the River Road Baptist Church in Richmond, VA. The head of the Building Committee provided dinner or supper for me at his home before driving me to the railroad station to board a sleeper to NY. His wife informed both of us when we arrived at his home from the church. We were still on the porch, had not yet entered the house. On hearing the news, all my strength drained from me, and I sat immediately on a swing sofa on the porch. My host said that I was taking the news harder than he was. Thinking about some of the emnity that at the time existed between some Baptists and some Catholics, I did not comment further, but we did eat in silence, since I had already discussed my preliminary acoustical evaluation and more detailed discussion would need to await analysis of the recorded data. Thank the Eternal that the emnity has dissapeared nearly comnpletely.
Thanks Dave. You have a great way of telling the story. I would suspect that you received a good grade on your report. Yes, I think all of know where we were that fateful day. I was working in an electric utility 138,000 volt substation preparing to run some tests with the telephone company to verify that the telco phone circuits would operate during a high current fault on the transmission system. Four thousand amps into the ground can make copper pellets of a 24 gauge telephone wire unless there is protection for that possibility. Someone came up the driveway and shouted that the president had been shot. Everyone looked stunned and I dove for the operators radio to learn what the news was. It was not long before orders came down to secure everything to its normal state. The telco employes were hardening all their facilities. No one new what might be coming next.
But the earth still revolved and fortunately life continues. Thanks for the memory.
I, too, was in junior high - English class to be exact. We were release early, as were most school kids. The walk home was surreal. Getting out of school early was cool, the reason why was not.
It seems like every generation has it's moment. For my mother's generation it was Pearl Harbor. My kids will likely remember the Challenger disaster and/or 9/11.
Who knows what's next...
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7th grade, Tamanend Jr. Hi, Warrington, PA. Many years later married at Overbrook Presby. My wife's best friend lived in Overbrook Park, father was the Airport director.
Thanks David.
I was ten years old on November 22 1963, and I remember it as if it was yesterday, and that's no idle cliche' on my part. Those of you who were around at the time know exactly what I mean.
And I remember thinking how angry the drums sounded on the day of the funeral.
We know a lot more about that day now, but in any case it was a terrible day in Dallas.
A friend writes:
When you undergo a traumatic experience, especially at a young age, you remember details of that experience for the rest of your life.
And so it was for so many on the day of the assassination of President John Fitzgerald Kennedy on that fateful Friday – November 22, 1963.
I was an eighth grader at Akiba Hebrew Academy in Merion, Pennsylvania.
The day before, we had discussed in our current events club about how JFK and David Ben-Gurion, Israel’s recently resigned prime minister, had a vociferous argument over Israel’s nuclear weapons program, just six weeks after JFK pushed through the nuclear test ban treaty – for the entire world to sign.
JFK didn’t want Israel – or anyone else- to produce nuclear weapons.
Ben-Gurion shot back that Israel’s adversaries wanted genocide – that this was the lesson that the Jews had learned from the Nazis, that this was why the Jews needed nukes (the dialogue is well documented in Avner Cohen’s book Israel And The Bomb, Columbia University Press, 1998
As I walked out of school to catch the bus home that Friday afternoon, a seventh grader down the steps, yelling out the news that the president had been shot dead in Dallas.
First thoughts hit me were that JFK was such a young guy, like a nice uncle who always had new ideas. My mind was racing, and I quickly wrote down my thoughts when I got on the bus to go home.
How would we remember JFK? I remembered listening to him in sixth grade at his inauguration – “Ask not what your country can do for you, but what you can do for your country.” He had one message: to get involved. Join the Peace Corps. Fight for civil rights. Help Poor Nations Abroad, and act in accordance with “Profiles in Courage”: Be proud to stand for the principles of your country, no matter what.
Getting on the bus at City Line Avenue, people of all ages were sobbing. A black man getting on the bus said to the driver, “Do you know what he did for us?”
The editor of the school paper, known as the Gateway, was also on that bus.
I told her that my dad was commuting these days to Washington DC, as an engineer working on central air conditioning at the big post office in DC. Saying that I could join him there, I asked if I could cover the JFK funeral for the school paper. She said “sure” and I got my first press assignment..
My thoughts on the bus which I wrote down at the time were that we “must do something to help our country” to remember our fallen president. As I sauntered down the sidewalk on Malvern Avenue in Overbrook Park, my Mom was standing outside, her hands folded. She asked me what I thought. My eight-year-old brother, Neal, standing beside her, shrugged his shoulders and said that “hey, we have an old man again,” meaning Lyndon Johnson.
And there was The Philadelphia Evening Bulletin delivered on our door step an hour before, spread out on the couch, with the headline “Kennedy shot in Dallas street,” superimposed over the sub headline: “Nixon, in Dallas, says that Kennedy will drop Johnson in 1964.”
Sitting in the living room for hours, we watched a shaken Walter Cronkite describe everything that he could about JFK and then about the ex-marine Lee Harvey Oswald. The weekly satire show “That Was The Week That Was”, hosted by David Frost, led with a melody that was written on the spot by the usually hilarious staff, now somber and serious. Nancy Ames sang the lyrics, which you can now pick up on YouTube http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h56_IbHqTIo
“A young man rode with his head held high, under the Texas sun, And no one guessed, That a man so blessed, would perish by the gun, Lord, would perish by the gun. A shot rang out like a southern shout. And Heaven held its breath. For a man shot down, In a Southern town, In the summer of his years, Yes, the summer of his years”.
As I psyched myself up that Sunday to cover the funeral the following day in Washington – where my friend Gary and I would accompany my dad at what was then called Pennsylvania Railroad Station at 30th Street – I was glued to the TV screen, to learn anything and everything that could be learned about the assassination and the assassin.
Clips from JFK’s short life were flashed across the screen – his press conferences, his defiant declaration of freedom at the Berlin Wall and his rollicking about with Caroline and John John.
Cronkite then showed a film of Oswald giving out fliers for the “Fair Play For Cuba Committee” in New Orleans.
And here was my first inquisitive wonder: How did CBS get that footage of Oswald so quickly? In an era before our advanced age of communications and internet, how was this possible that they got such a film? Did that mean that the FBI knew who Oswald was, I asked my Mom.
And then a moment on live TV occurred that may never happen again: The news cut to the basement of the Dallas police station, where Oswald was being arraigned and we watched Oswald’s assassination on live television. What an unbelievable moment in US television history.
The next morning in DC, we took the train from Philly to DC, and walked from Union Station to the Washington Post Office. We saw world leaders walk out of the White House, where they paid their respects to the late president. I stood in awe as we identified Charles de Gaulle of France, Haile Selassie of Ethiopia, Golda Meir of Israel, Willy Brandt of West Germany, Olof Palme of Sweden and Habib Bourguiba of Tunisia as they walked in a solemn procession by us. All walked slowly, somberly, seemingly without any protection whatsoever. And a Scottish band played a solemn version of “Hail to the Chief,” a quiet crowd looked on.
Yes, this was a memorial to JFK, yet it was also a salute to America 18 years after World War II, after US had played a pivotal role in saving the world from the Nazi and fascist threat. The procession was also a thank-you to America for its stand in the Cold War, which 13 months earlier had almost boiled over.
The US secret service took no chances with American public officials. They all drove in vans, with guards on each side. We got a glimpse of President Johnson as he drove by, and my father took a snapshot of the car. The policeman standing in front of us went to pieces when the casket of JFK went by, with the lonely unmounted horse leading the way. This was the first time that I had ever seen a grown man cry, let alone a cop.
After everyone went by, my dad went to work at the post office, and Gary and I strolled through the crowd back to Union Station.
On the Pennsylvania Railroad, an older lady (she might have been 40, but I remember her as “old”) asked us what we thought of the recent assassinations. My response was that while I thought that killing Huey Long was a good idea, but that killing JFK was a bad idea.
I then started asking questions of my own. Five or six people got into the conversation, and no one had answers to my simple questions, like, “How could it be that a Marine runs away to Russia in the middle of the Cold War, gets married, comes back, is not arrested, works for Cuba, kills the president and then gets killed two days later at the police station, no less ?” And “what was Nixon doing in Dallas on the day of the assassination?”
I kept asking these run-on questions, and America will keep asking that run-on question until all official documents of the JFK assassination are released.
Over the years, we had understood that the JFK secret documents would be released after fifty years. I guess that this is not going to happen.
EPILOGUE
No essay about our baby boomer generation collective loss of JFK would not be complete without recalling folk songs that we would sing about our departed President, who had instilled us, as children, with hope for a better world.
Here are two of those songs, by folk singer Phil Ochs.
Ochs wrote the first song in memory of murdered civil rights leader, Medgar Evers, and adapted it to recall the JFK murder. Ochs wrote the second song right after the assassination. I heard Phil Ochs perform these songs at a Philadelphia coffee house one year after JFK’s murder, and I have internalized the message of these songs ever since.
TOO MANY MARTYRS
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lkfgJG5kyQg
Too Many Martyrs and Too Many DeadToo Many lives too Many Empty Words Were SaidToo many times for too many angry menOh may it never be again.
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THAT WAS THE PRESIDENT, AND THAT WAS A MANhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eSQRuNmP7SU
The bullets of the false revenge have struck us once againAs the angry seas have struck upon the sandAnd it seemed as though a friendless world had lost itself a friendThat was the President and that was the man.
I still can see him smiling there and waving at the crowdAs he drove through the music of the bandAnd never even knowing no more time would be allowedNot for the President and not for the man.
Here’s a memory to share, here’s a memory to saveOf the sudden early ending of commandYet a part of you and a part of me is buried in his graveThat was the President and that was the man.
It’s not only for the leader that the sorrow hits so hardThere are greater things I’ll never understandHow a man so filled with life, even death was caught off guard.That was the President and that was the man.
Every thing he might have done and all he could have beenWas proven by the troubled traitor's handFor what other death could wound the hearts of so many menThat was the President and that was the man.
Yes, the glory that was Lincoln’s never died when he was slainIt’s been carried over time and time againAnd to the list of honor you may add another nameThat was the President and that was the man.That was the President and that was the man.
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My comment: I don't think any assasination is a good idea. And I am sorry that my friend didn't make it clear that he agrees with that sentiment as well. But a defensive war is different. Long was not waging war.
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