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Are there any Female railfans out there? Do they even exist?
Posted by Anonymous on Tuesday, August 17, 2004 11:12 AM
Trains should start a dating service... lets see man seeking woman who likes to go out at all hours of the day and night and gaze into the eyes of a GP40..[:X]..But really they need to reach out to women and minorities better then they have been.
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Posted by AntonioFP45 on Tuesday, August 17, 2004 11:17 AM
QUOTE: Originally posted by trainfinder22

Trains should start a dating service... lets see man seeking woman who likes to go out at all hours of the day and night and gaze into the eyes of a GP40..[:X]..But really they need to reach out to women and minorities better then they have been.
Good goobly! How would TRAINS do that?! A person either likes trains or doesn't. It's not a "PC" issue. As for minorities, I've met plenty of them that are railfans. Depends on what part of the U.S or Canada you're living in. There are also railfans of just about every background around the globe where trains run.

The wife of a friend of mine is a Railfan. She grew up near a mainline.

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Posted by cherokee woman on Tuesday, August 17, 2004 11:22 AM
There are several of us females who are railfans: Mookie, Nora, Kathi Kube,
nance69 and me, cherokee woman. YES, WE DO EXIST!! These names are
just the names I know of on the forums: and I forgot Big Girl (so sorry about
that). [angel]
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Posted by Anonymous on Tuesday, August 17, 2004 12:24 PM
Just as there is Teen Railroaders group there should be a womens League as well
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Posted by Anonymous on Tuesday, August 17, 2004 12:31 PM
Nora is a very nice person.
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Posted by locomutt on Tuesday, August 17, 2004 2:34 PM
All the women on the Forum like trains,or they wouldn't be here.
I'm not sure if Nora actually works for the railroad,or a separate co.
that contracts to the r.r.;and Kathi,gosh,look how far up in Trains mag.
she is.AND I know for a fact that she is a VERY big railfan. I been a model
railroader/railfan for over 40 years,and sometimes CW wants to do
some railfanning I've taken for granted all these years.
Mookie loves it,Nance shares it with Bob,and I'm sorry to say that I
don't know more about Big Girl,but she wouldn't be on here if she didn't
at least like doing so.

I think Antonio said it as well as can be said;' you either are,or your not'

I may get blasted for this one,if so,so be it. But trainfinder 22,I would suggest
that this be dropped,and let's not rock the boat,or train for that matter.

And as far as reaching out to ALL people,TRAINS is one of the best for
getting railroading across to EVERYBODY!

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Posted by dharmon on Tuesday, August 17, 2004 2:53 PM
QUOTE: Originally posted by locomutt

All the women on the Forum like trains,or they wouldn't be here.
I'm not sure if Nora actually works for the railroad,or a separate co.
that contracts to the r.r.;and Kathi,gosh,look how far up in Trains mag.
she is.AND I know for a fact that she is a VERY big railfan. I been a model
railroader/railfan for over 40 years,and sometimes CW wants to do
some railfanning I've taken for granted all these years.
Mookie loves it,Nance shares it with Bob,and I'm sorry to say that I
don't know more about Big Girl,but she wouldn't be on here if she didn't
at least like doing so.

I think Antonio said it as well as can be said;' you either are,or your not'

I may get blasted for this one,if so,so be it. But trainfinder 22,I would suggest
that this be dropped,and let's not rock the boat,or train for that matter.

And as far as reaching out to ALL people,TRAINS is one of the best for
getting railroading across to EVERYBODY!


And from California, lets not forget the LGBTRA. The ***, Gay, Bi-sexual and Transgender Railfan Association.

And before anyone gets uptight, San Diego just had the LGBT parade announced just as above on radio and TV.
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Posted by Big_Boy_4005 on Tuesday, August 17, 2004 3:15 PM
It's easier to find a woman who likes YOU and create your own. That's what I did.[swg]

The NMRA has activities for the women at their national conventions, but those usually aren't train related. That's where the "train widows" hang out. The ones who like trains do the regular activities.
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Posted by JoeKoh on Tuesday, August 17, 2004 4:17 PM
Mamma says we are going to Deshler days.need I say more?
stay safe
Joe and matt

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Posted by locomutt on Tuesday, August 17, 2004 7:07 PM
Joe,
You have not actually hinted how much of a railfan Stacey is.

I'm guessing,pretty good,judging from last comment.[:)]

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Posted by locomutt on Tuesday, August 17, 2004 7:15 PM
QUOTE: Originally posted by Big_Boy_4005

It's easier to find a woman who likes YOU and create your own. That's what I did.[swg]

The NMRA has activities for the women at their national conventions, but those usually aren't train related. That's where the "train widows" hang out. The ones who like trains do the regular activities.


I agree with you to a point. My first wife's father was an engineer on the C&O,
her brother worked at the shops at Raceland. All she could do wa tolerate me,
and my love for railfanning. We don't actually 'create'our own. There are bunches
of things to do,if they want to they will.

Being Crazy,keeps you from going "INSANE" !! "The light at the end of the tunnel,has been turned off due to budget cuts" NOT AFRAID A Vet., and PROUD OF IT!!

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Posted by Anonymous on Tuesday, August 17, 2004 8:28 PM
I agree!
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Posted by Train Guy 3 on Tuesday, August 17, 2004 9:03 PM
NS railfan + Girl who likes horses = Girl sudenly interested in trains.

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Posted by Anonymous on Tuesday, August 17, 2004 9:35 PM
I have been married six years, and while my wife thinks I'm playing with toys (arguably so), and can't understand why I valunteer when I don't get payed anything and often come home covered in grease and dirt, she has a wonderfull time when we travel by train and is already looking foreward to our next trip.

Is she a railfan? SHURE!

Is it me, or does it seem that when traveling by train there is a cammaderie between passengers?
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Posted by Anonymous on Tuesday, August 17, 2004 9:42 PM
Oh, maybe more girls would like trains if they were painted pink and decorated with tassles and flowers![;)]
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Posted by Big_Boy_4005 on Tuesday, August 17, 2004 10:18 PM
QUOTE: Originally posted by jruppert

Oh, maybe more girls would like trains if they were painted pink and decorated with tassles and flowers![;)]


Lionel proved almost 50 years ago that that doesn't work.
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Posted by Anonymous on Tuesday, August 17, 2004 10:39 PM
QUOTE: Originally posted by jruppert

Oh, maybe more girls would like trains if they were painted pink and decorated with tassles and flowers![;)]



BLASPHEMY!!!!!![:p][:p][:p]


Don't come near my steamers with anything other than black, ok maybe some nice dark blood red paint---but that's IT.[:D][:D]
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Posted by Big_Boy_4005 on Tuesday, August 17, 2004 10:54 PM
QUOTE: Originally posted by Big_Girl_4005

QUOTE: Originally posted by jruppert

Oh, maybe more girls would like trains if they were painted pink and decorated with tassles and flowers![;)]



BLASPHEMY!!!!!![:p][:p][:p]


Don't come near my steamers with anything other than black, ok maybe some nice dark blood red paint---but that's IT.[:D][:D]


Sorry about that little outburst there gang. She's still attending the Henry Ford school of steam engine painting. She hasn't seen photos of 4449, or any of the other great passenger steam locomotives. I'll have to work on that with her.[swg]
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Posted by locomutt on Tuesday, August 17, 2004 10:56 PM
QUOTE: Originally posted by M.W. Hemphill

Sure -- my wife. We met in rules class in Fort Worth. We both hired out at KCS with the same seniority date.


COOL, you guys do have a lot in common.[:)]

Being Crazy,keeps you from going "INSANE" !! "The light at the end of the tunnel,has been turned off due to budget cuts" NOT AFRAID A Vet., and PROUD OF IT!!

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Posted by Anonymous on Tuesday, August 17, 2004 10:58 PM
QUOTE:
Sorry about that little outburst there gang. She's still attending the Henry Ford school of steam engine painting. She hasn't seen photos of 4449, or any of the other great passenger steam locomotives. I'll have to work on that with her.[swg]



You can have any color you want --as long as it's BLACK.[:D][:D][:D]
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Posted by locomutt on Tuesday, August 17, 2004 11:07 PM
QUOTE: Originally posted by Big_Girl_4005

QUOTE:
Sorry about that little outburst there gang. She's still attending the Henry Ford school of steam engine painting. She hasn't seen photos of 4449, or any of the other great passenger steam locomotives. I'll have to work on that with her.[swg]



You can have any color you want --as long as it's BLACK.[:D][:D][:D]


I take it that's your favorite color;mine would have been blue.[:)]

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Posted by Anonymous on Tuesday, August 17, 2004 11:17 PM
QUOTE: Originally posted by locomutt

QUOTE: Originally posted by Big_Girl_4005

QUOTE:
Sorry about that little outburst there gang. She's still attending the Henry Ford school of steam engine painting. She hasn't seen photos of 4449, or any of the other great passenger steam locomotives. I'll have to work on that with her.[swg]



You can have any color you want --as long as it's BLACK.[:D][:D][:D]


I take it that's your favorite color;mine would have been blue.[:)]


Black does happen to be up there. I have seen some really cool looking locomotives but something about see that big black smoking demon thundering by sure gets the blood pumping in a way that just can't be achieved by anything less.
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Posted by Anonymous on Tuesday, August 17, 2004 11:18 PM
No BNSF orange&green.
Or CSXT dark blue&yellow!

By the way how did this topic come up in the first place?
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Posted by Anonymous on Tuesday, August 17, 2004 11:23 PM
QUOTE: Originally posted by BNSF SD70MAC

No BNSF orange&green.
Or CSXT dark blue&yellow!

By the way how did this topic come up in the first place?




You can put what ever color you want on them diesels(as long as it was never used for easter eggs[:p])but leave them steam engines alone[;)][;)]
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Posted by JoeKoh on Wednesday, August 18, 2004 7:08 AM
QUOTE: Originally posted by locomutt

Joe,
You have not actually hinted how much of a railfan Stacey is.

I'm guessing,pretty good,judging from last comment.[:)]

she is still in training[:)] so to speak.
stay safe
Joe

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Posted by Anonymous on Wednesday, August 18, 2004 7:42 AM
My wife got addicted to railfanning by associating with a known, manic, ferroequinologist... me.

She has been broken of the habit of saying "look at the choo choo", can now tell the difference between an EMD and a GE, and surprised an NS engineer by asking about the difference between train brakes and locomotive brakes.

Colors- there's nothing prettier than an old fashioned E painted green and white... with "Southern" on the side....

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Posted by Randy Stahl on Wednesday, August 18, 2004 12:01 PM
Yes trainfinder there really are girls.... who like trains, I've given many cab rides over the years, the common complaint though is that the machines are sooooo dirty, they need a womans touch!!!!
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Posted by Anonymous on Wednesday, August 18, 2004 12:22 PM
My wife is
whenever we go out of town to see a steam engine say the 3985 we stay the night so we can see it arrive and depart. She isnt much into diesels more into steam the romance of the rails all that stuff. And if I ahve had a hard day she says why dont you go out and run some trains and relax.
she fully supports the hobby and listens to me gab on about adhesion factors wheel configurations and such. I remeber one time my grandpa pointed to his bigboy model on the shelf and asked her if she knew what it was and she replied yup its a bigboy 4-8-8-4 with a centipede tender. His mouth nearly hit the floor.

Seh wants us all to head to Cheyenne and catch an exscurson some time.

and she isnt going to sell off my collection when I die.
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Posted by cherokee woman on Wednesday, August 18, 2004 12:39 PM
QUOTE: Originally posted by Big_Girl_4005

QUOTE: Originally posted by locomutt

QUOTE: Originally posted by Big_Girl_4005

QUOTE:
Sorry about that little outburst there gang. She's still attending the Henry Ford school of steam engine painting. She hasn't seen photos of 4449, or any of the other great passenger steam locomotives. I'll have to work on that with her.[swg]



You can have any color you want --as long as it's BLACK.[:D][:D][:D]


I take it that's your favorite color;mine would have been blue.[:)]


Black does happen to be up there. I have seen some really cool looking locomotives but something about see that big black smoking demon thundering by sure gets the blood pumping in a way that just can't be achieved by anything less.


[8D]Big Girl_4005, you've got that right. Those big, black smoking trains are my
favorite to see and read about. These new deisels just don't do anything for me.
NO OFFENSE TO ALL WHO LOVE/LIKE DEISELS, EITHER. As the old saying
goes, "To each his own". [angel]
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Posted by Randy Stahl on Wednesday, August 18, 2004 1:14 PM
Perhaps your wife is the type that would rather take her chances in the poison ivy.. I know I would.
Randy

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