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[quote]QUOTE: <i>Originally posted by Junctionfan</i> <br /><br />[quote]QUOTE: <i>Originally posted by TheAntiGates</i> <br /><br />Andrew, <br /> <br />Hope this helps....There is nothing you can say to me that will make me mad....only I have final control over that aspect of my character. The same can be said of you,..I am sure. <br /> <br />The web is a big place, and is full of all kinds of people. I've been around it for a long time, and I can tell you that the type of person who readilly resorts to insults, especially in debate,...usually isn't very bright, and often resorts to the technique when their intellect is near exhaustion. <br /> <br />If ever there was a valid instance in saying 'consider the source', this would be one. Typically the fountains of insults tend to erupt when folks run out of cognizant argument, but are too stupid to simply shut up. <br /> <br />I take it from your post, that the insults really bother you. If such is the case, by far the most effective way to shut them down is to simply ignore them. Because usually half the "fun" enjoyed by an insult artist comes from their ability to get under your skin, and get you "going"....And absent that, there is no fun in it. <br /> <br />I'm a little different, I suppose, because the insults themselves don't make me mad, rather I just get irritated with the prospect of the party spewing the insults, enjoying themselves just a little too much. You know? fooling themselves that they might be clever? <br /> <br /> Being the hard headed *** that I am, once such a person has drawn first blood, I'm not above returning the favor in effort to burst their little bubble.... in the fine spirit of "one-upsmanship" .but that's just me.... Your best bet, if it really bothers you, is to simply ignore them, and spoil all their fun.... <br />[/quote] <br /> <br />I guess you are right there. <br /> <br />I was brought up that you should treat others the way you would want to be treated and if you don't have anything nice to say to someone than you shouldn't say anything at all. <br /> <br />I'm trying to learn from people and if I don't understand, I keep on asking until I do. Did it in school with some subjects because if I didn't than my alternative was to fail. I don't recall any of my teachers insulting me for doing it either. There are those who have the knowledge but it's hard to listen to someone's response if one sentence is the learning part and the other sentence is an insult-the learning process has effectively been spoiled and that's unfortunate. <br />[/quote] <br /> <br />Andrew- <br /> <br />You just kill me...FOFLMAO... <br /> <br />Need a little more cheese with that whine?? <br /> <br />How 'bout if we just get back to real railroads... <br /> <br />LC
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