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Posted by darkstar974 on Sunday, October 23, 2005 6:44 PM
Well there are two sides to every story though i see that as being very childish behavior
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Posted by trainboyH16-44 on Sunday, October 23, 2005 5:35 PM
Quote(song):'and when you walk in your neighborhood, carry a gun
Shoot first and ask questions when you're done"
Okay, the song is about how nature is everywhere and it's "Kill or be killed" don't woory, it's not anti-animal, it's just poking fun at killer whales, sharks, and polar bears.
back on topic. No matter how badly a woman got scorned, she should never do anything that severe. I mean these things are limitd run, and full of memories! If I saw her on the street, I'd run away!
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Posted by loathar on Sunday, October 23, 2005 3:40 PM
Cops won't do anything in a situation like this.They'll say the finger prints won't matter when both parties lived in the house. If cops can't make money on it your SOL!
I say don't get mad...get even![:-,]
When I booted the ex out I made sure I was home when she and her "friends" came to get her stuff. I sat in a chair with a pistol in my belt inspecting everything they took out the door.
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Posted by Anonymous on Sunday, October 23, 2005 3:16 PM
That is terrible, what a sick sick sick woman... [V]
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Posted by Anonymous on Sunday, October 23, 2005 8:44 AM
Never trust a woman under any circumstances no matter what, and if they don't like the trains, let them leave, or better yet throw their asses out. I work with people who NEVER spend time with their spouses on vacations. Smart men!
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Posted by Berk-fan284 on Sunday, October 23, 2005 4:30 AM
Hard to say what the real deal is without knowing the full story. Normally decent,intelligent folks can make some pretty questionable decisions or actions under stress and no one I know would call a divorce stress free.
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Posted by steveblackledge on Sunday, October 23, 2005 4:21 AM
When my first wife ran off with another guy i changed the locks in seconds, lucky for me the back and front door are the same but there was no access to the back so i just swapped them over double quick,,,it worked a treat and she collected her stuff off the doorstep[:D][:-,][:D]
my wife now of 8 happy years would never do anything like that
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Posted by AggroJones on Sunday, October 23, 2005 2:07 AM
I......I.......I don't know how I would handle that woman and her boy friend. Just reading a story like this gets the angry juices flowing.

I think I'd have to go AGGRO on the ex and her new chump. [}:)] [B)]

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Posted by skiloff on Saturday, October 22, 2005 12:48 PM
Just to play devil's advocate, we don't know the whole story. While its true that destroying a prized model like that is not only immature but completely uncalled for, it is quite likely there were reasons why she did that. If you spent most of your spare time with your model trains instead of your wife, you don't think she'd be a little upset? Or maybe he did something to her that really got her riled. Divorces are ugly and its rare where one party is 90% at fault. I've seen crazy women and I've seen crazy men in divorces and many cases its both. I could go on about morality, but we're not supposed to get into that in this forum.
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Posted by Anonymous on Saturday, October 22, 2005 11:02 AM
i doubt i could be as civil as you guys. being a victim dont set well with me anymore.
at very least id find me some vixen that liked MRR and made the ex look like fido. even if i had to hire a model .



a plus side for this man is that given enough time "what comes around goes around "
and she will get hers im very very sure.
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Posted by TBat55 on Saturday, October 22, 2005 5:28 AM
Negotiating with an arbiter is like wrestling a pig. You both get muddy but the pig likes it.

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Posted by Anonymous on Friday, October 21, 2005 8:26 PM
I feel sorry for that gentlemen. I had a similar experience I lost about $2,000.00 plus other operating accessorries in an O scale layout I bought for my son before I got divorced. My ex-wife did something with it. My lawyer refused to go after the property in court. I sued the lawyer later and it came out of his bill. As far as police go, they are incompetent, don't waste your time.

For anyone who doesn't believe this story, including lawyers, I also had the lawyer found guilty of incompetence before our state bar. I am also a union representative with experience in Workers compensation cases, grievance and arbitration cases, and contract bargaining. Moral to the story, never take on a client who knows what your job is, and understands the state ethics code for lawyers.

One other thing, I only lost one case before an arbiter, I have a winning record. People think I should go back to school and be a lawyer, I tell them I try to help people not screw them!
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Posted by TomDiehl on Friday, October 21, 2005 9:09 AM
QUOTE: Originally posted by RedLeader

that sucks!! Irony would be that while on their way back, they got bashed by a passing freight...


No, if that happened, I believe the term for that is "poetic justice."
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Posted by Budliner on Thursday, October 20, 2005 11:12 PM
doh





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Posted by Anonymous on Thursday, October 20, 2005 10:56 PM
hey!whyed my computer make 2 thingys?
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Posted by Anonymous on Thursday, October 20, 2005 10:54 PM
why that no good,sleezy piece of [censored] [soapbox]!!!!!!!
it makes me sick.who would destroy such a beatiful,delicate thing as a model train!!! lest alone some diesels and trains.i could,i could,hey,go get my chainsaw.lets see how shell get to places now with out her car.heh heh heh...but i dont think a car is worth what a model train is.unless it 70 ferraris.
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Posted by Anonymous on Thursday, October 20, 2005 10:53 PM
why that[censored][soapbox]!!!!!!!
it makes me sick.who would destroy such a beatiful,delicate thing as a model train!!! lest alone some diesels and trains.i could,i could,hey,go get my chainsaw.lets see how shell get to places now with out her car.heh heh heh...but i dont think a car is worth what a model train is.unless it 70 ferraris.
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Posted by Anonymous on Thursday, October 20, 2005 9:35 PM
Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.
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Posted by TrainFreak409 on Thursday, October 20, 2005 9:08 PM
QUOTE: Originally posted by vsmith

I miss my Ex...but the aim's improving[;)]



Better luck with that shootin', Tex.[:p]

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Posted by railroadyoshi on Thursday, October 20, 2005 8:41 PM
vsmith, very good points. This is just so sad. I feel very bad for that person. hope that lady gets sued.
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Posted by brothaslide on Thursday, October 20, 2005 5:23 PM
QUOTE: Originally posted by brothaslide

Here is what the message said. . .

My wife and I are going through a divorce. Today she came by to get her stuff, with her new boyfriend. They decided to destroy my Atlas and Proto 2000 locomotives, and several of my rolling stock. My wife knows that these are my pride and joy, especially since I saved for a long time to get them. These locomotives are in pieces, nothing to repair. The police said I have to prove she did it, so I'm SOL.
sorry if I am venting, but this is just wrong,

Todd



BTW - The message is not from me - I've been happily married for 15 years. I just posted the message I saw from the Atlas forums.

Take care,

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Posted by Javern on Thursday, October 20, 2005 4:26 PM
when i divorced I didn't have trains then, and I gave her everything so there was nothing she could complain about, steal, or break. Really made her mad
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Posted by vsmith on Thursday, October 20, 2005 3:33 PM
Actually I'd like to state my POV

Its HIS fault, yep!

The MINUTE she moved out, should have been the minute he CHANGED the locks. This is even more a priority if she's shacked up with another guy.

Any time she wants to come pick stuff up, make sure its ONLY when he was there to oversee that nothing was "mistakenly" taken or "accidently" damaged.

Also that if the boyfriend comes with her, he sits outside. It was his responsibility to make sure she understood that he was NOT welcome and would not be allowed in. He could help with the heavy items at least to the door step, then let the new boyfriend take it, but it was his responsibility to protect his property.

Now that the damage is done, he should sue her. or at least bring it up in divorce court, especially if they have kids its a great example to a judge that she and her boyfriend might not be trustworthy with kids if they are so "prone to violence" ...

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Posted by trainfreek92 on Thursday, October 20, 2005 3:32 PM
that women should be shoot right in the face. What a evil.................................. i hope that guy can prove she did!! [censored][censored][censored] Tim
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Posted by vsmith on Thursday, October 20, 2005 3:22 PM
I miss my Ex...but the aim's improving[;)]

Sounds like nothing a little lighter fluid, a match and the spare keys to her car wouldn't solve....[}:)]

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Posted by Anonymous on Thursday, October 20, 2005 3:01 PM
They're going through a divorce. Usually, the "boyfriend" in the situation tries to act all tough to the other guy. At least that's what I've seen.

It makes me mad to read that...but we don't know the whole situation. I think it'd be funny if he destroyed a prized posession of her's or the other guy's...[}:)]
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Posted by Anonymous on Thursday, October 20, 2005 2:58 PM
QUOTE: Originally posted by Darth Santa Fe

YIKES!!!!!!!!!!!! I hope he has Model Train Insurance!![:O][:O][:O][:O][:O][:O]

Geico: A 15 minute call could save you on your model train insurance too.
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Posted by RedLeader on Thursday, October 20, 2005 2:45 PM
that sucks!! Irony would be that while on their way back, they got bashed by a passing freight...

 

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Posted by jacon12 on Thursday, October 20, 2005 1:00 PM
That's bad, but it's also too common. I sure hope they didn't have kids together. I've said it once and I'll say it again..... IF at all possible... change the locks!!
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