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Just Retired
Posted by Southgate 2 on Friday, January 1, 2021 4:12 AM

For the last 24 years, I have owned and operated a one man floor maint business. It has served me well. But, as good a run as it has been, as of 12:00 AM 1-1-2021, like many here in this forum, I am retired. Worked my last night shift on Dec 31, finished at just before midnight. I was well liked by all my customers, but didn't realize how much until...

On the final drive home across town, I was deeply touched by how sweet it was of the whole  community of Bend OR to celebrate my last work night and retirement with tons of bright colorful fireworks, and lots of loud noise! Smile, Wink & Grin

SO! I ask this forum, What EVER is a retired night owl going to do with those quiet late waking hours to fill the void?  Hint: it won't be TV. And the layout room is a separate structure, so whatever noise I make won't be an issue. 

I just had to share somehow, somewhere. Thanks for reading. Dan

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Posted by mobilman44 on Friday, January 1, 2021 5:50 AM

Happy Retirement to you!

I retired in 2006 after 40 years in the "oil bizzness".  During the last several years at work I would occasionally run into retirees.  I was amazed at how many would say, "I just don't know how I got anything done when I was working, I'm just so busy now".   

Well, I would laugh at that and thought it was a joke.  But it wasn't long after I retired that I found myself saying the same thing - and it still applies.

One thing that kept me busy (in a very good way) was building a new layout.  I started the replacement in 2008, and worked on it for years.  In addition, I did all the yardwork and most all of the home/vehicle maintenance, etc.

Said another way, the key is having hobbies and/or obligations.    

You say you are a night owl, and I doubt that will change.  I was a very early morning person (at my desk in downtown Houston by 6 am) and still find myself "up and at em" at 4 in the morning.  

Here is wishing you the best!

ENJOY  !

 

Mobilman44

 

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Posted by NorthBrit on Friday, January 1, 2021 6:04 AM

Happy Retirement to you.

The telephone will ring.  Someone in your family will say  "As you haven't anything to do please go to  ----------    pick up  -----------    help with   ---------------------- "

You get the picture.

After doing this, that and the other for everyone else  you find a hobby  that 'gets you out of the way'.   Laugh

 

Enjoy your retirement.

 

David

 

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Posted by georgev on Friday, January 1, 2021 6:56 AM

Congratulations on your retirement.  I retired 10 years ago - so far it's the best job I ever had.

Find what you like to do and fill your days with it.  When you get bored is when you spend your days sitting in a chair mindlessly wandering on the internet.... looking at train videos.... reading model railroad forums... 

Hey!  I'm not bored! I am doing research!!!!!

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Posted by caldreamer on Friday, January 1, 2021 8:12 AM

I retired in 2010 after working for 45 years, 38 of them with the US government.  I was just worn out.  The 3 hour commute in all kinds of weather as I was designated as an essential person, plus the long hours fnally got to me.  I am enjoying my retirement and model railroading.  I have even gotten my wife somewhat interested in trains.  WHAT A MIRACLE.  Enjoy your retirement.

    Caldreamer

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Posted by mbinsewi on Friday, January 1, 2021 8:12 AM

You go Dan!  I've been retired since 2012, being a cement finisher, it couldn't come soon enough!  

Now you and gmpullman (Ed) can get together! Laugh, along with a few others in here, who's bedtime is when the rest of us are getting up. 

It's really special when the whole world celebrates your retirement!   Whistling

Mike.

EDIT:  Lucky you!  There is a young lady in the Users Online box that is here to help you celebrate!  Ms. AmyTGibbs.  Mischief  She probably won't stay long.

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Posted by Medina1128 on Friday, January 1, 2021 8:34 AM

Congrats and welcome to retirement. I think you'll find that without having to go to work, there STILL won't be enough hours in the day. And, yes, you'll get "volunteered" into helping other people get the things on other people's "honey-do" list. Good thing your layout is in a separate building. When your significant other calls you, just flip on the table saw. Whistling

 

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Posted by nealknows on Friday, January 1, 2021 8:38 AM

Congratulations! I retired in 2018 from being a manufacturers' sales rep in the toy biz. I'm so glad I have a hobby, THIS hobby. I don't know what I would do if I didn't have it. Yes, I have my wife and we do travel (until this C19 hit us). All I can say to others is to find a hobby or something to keep you busy in your retirement years.

I'm sure you will keep busy with your model railroad and other things you thought may not have the time to do, but now you can!

Neal

 

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Posted by Pruitt on Friday, January 1, 2021 10:15 AM

Congratulations! 

I think you'll find retiring is the best decision you've ever made. It sure was for me! I enjoy life now more than I ever have. I hope it's the same for you.

Happy model railroading, and be sure to share your adventures with the rest of us.

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Posted by York1 on Friday, January 1, 2021 10:20 AM

Congratulations, Dan!

 

Pruitt
I think you'll find retiring is the best decision you've ever made. It sure was for me! I enjoy life now more than I ever have. I hope it's the same for you.

 

I will echo that!

York1 John       

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Posted by rrebell on Friday, January 1, 2021 10:26 AM

I have been retired for a great deal of my life, first time when I was 29, then got married and had kids and retired again at 52. I am 68 now. I find that sometimes you are very busy but other times there is bordom. See I was able to work 7 days a week and up to 20 hours a day and can still do 8 hr on a construction job (helped install a kitchen on someone elses honey do list). Point being is if you are used to long hours, there are a lot of hours in a day that need to be filled. Before the shut down I could fill alot of them but not now. Lucky for you this seems to be ending so by the time you get your layout in reasomble shape, hopefully this will be over and you can do the things you like besides model railroading.

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Posted by CNR378 on Friday, January 1, 2021 10:28 AM

A timely post.

Today is day one of my retirement. No more getting up at 1AM to go to work.

 

Peter

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Posted by York1 on Friday, January 1, 2021 10:30 AM

Congratulations to you, too, Peter!

York1 John       

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Posted by MisterBeasley on Friday, January 1, 2021 10:53 AM

When I retired 6 years ago, about all I did to celebrate was turn off the alarm clock and never turn it on again.  I thought of smashing it with a sledge hammer, but why do that to a perfectly good clock that had served me well for thirty years?

When I retired and people ask me what it was like, I tell them it's like stepping off a cliff and landing in a cloud.

Congratulations.

It takes an iron man to play with a toy iron horse. 

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Posted by dknelson on Friday, January 1, 2021 11:27 AM

Retired since 2013 and now it seems unimaginable that I got up every weekday at 5:30 am.  Thinking about work and dreaming about work became very rare early on.  

Random observations.  You'll have less "free time" than you thought you'd have.  You'll likely sleep later.  Suddenly going to hardware stores and coffee shops will seem interesting.  You'll eagerly await the arrival of the daily mail even though most of it goes directly into recycling.  You'll get to know neighbors and even also-retired former co-workers better.  You might be asked to join various retiree lunch and breakfest groups (as soon as social distancing is over) - do so.

When I (rearely) drive down the same roads as I drove every day to work, I am often shocked at the changes.  Houses have been torn down and built, stores have come and gone, trees taken down due to emerald ash borer.    

I expected I'd be able to devote what had been my 8 hour work day to model railroading.  it has not worked out that way.  

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Posted by SeeYou190 on Friday, January 1, 2021 12:44 PM

Southgate 2
SO! I ask this forum, What EVER is a retired night owl going to do with those quiet late waking hours to fill the void?  Hint: it won't be TV. And the layout room is a separate structure, so whatever noise I make won't be an issue. 

I retired in February 2020, talk about great timing! That was the best bounce I ever had. I was offered an excellent package from my employer of 31 years, and I checked out at age 52.

I am also a night owl. I was in school, so it makes sense I would be one in retirement. I have been working on my house since I left employment, so I really don't have the "nothing to do" experience yet.

My wife and I stay up until 4:00 - 6:00 AM every night, and sleep until noon. I don't have an alarm clock.

I eat when I am hungry, go to sleep when I am tired, and wake up when I am rested.

This is the life!

mobilman44
I was amazed at how many would say, "I just don't know how I got anything done when I was working, I'm just so busy now".    Well, I would laugh at that and thought it was a joke.  But it wasn't long after I retired that I found myself saying the same thing - and it still applies.

So so true. I don't know where I found the time to work so many hours, raise children, take care of my wife, or maintain anything. I also had leisure activities like concerts, conventions, and train shows that are gone now.

How did I do it?

-Kevin

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Posted by Southgate 2 on Friday, January 1, 2021 12:46 PM

Thank you for the replies. And Congrats to you, Peter!

I might add a few details: I was down to about 3 hours a night for 4 nights a week in the last few years. Not much, you might say. But we are foster parents to the most precious developementally disabled girl, who has been my main occupation for years.  It as been said if you can find a way to find a way to make a living doing something you love, you never have to go to work. SO TRUE!!!

The night work was our main source of income for years, but that leaned off with the resession in around 08-09.  I still kept the core accounts. But it was time, I was burned out. I did a good job to the end. So my days don't change, other than not having to save energy for work on work nights.

I'm about 90% done building a 21x40 shop with a concrete floor for my mechanical and welding interests (plenty of projects lined up for that!), so I'll be enjoying that after being cramped in a 17 x 21. 

The cozy layout room is 10x20, I wouldn't want it bigger. I'm a slow builder, this layout will suffice nicely. That's night activity, and winter weather.

And I've already got a busy day planed, so I got to get at it! 

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Posted by SeeYou190 on Friday, January 1, 2021 12:49 PM

NorthBrit
After doing this, that and the other for everyone else  you find a hobby  that 'gets you out of the way'.

So far this has not happened to me yet.

I am sure it will. All of my wife's family lives here in this town... dozens of them.

They are the best people, and I could never tell them no.

caldreamer
am enjoying my retirement and model railroading.  I have even gotten my wife somewhat interested in trains.  WHAT A MIRACLE.  Enjoy your retirement.

I am starting to see signs of this from my wife too... MIRACLE!

CNR378
A timely post. Today is day one of my retirement. No more getting up at 1AM to go to work.

Congratulations Peter!

MisterBeasley
When I retired 6 years ago, about all I did to celebrate was turn off the alarm clock and never turn it on again.  I thought of smashing it with a sledge hammer, but why do that to a perfectly good clock that had served me well for thirty years?

I do not even have a clock in the bedroom. I get up when I feel like it, and do not want to know what time it is while I am in bed.

I had to use the alarm clock when contractors were coming to the house, but those days are over.

dknelson
You'll eagerly await the arrival of the daily mail even though most of it goes directly into recycling.

Why is this?

The mail was always in the box when I came home from work, and I never gave it any thought.

Now, if it is not here by 2:00 I want to know what is going on!

-Kevin

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Posted by doctorwayne on Friday, January 1, 2021 2:02 PM

Congratulations on your retirement, Dan.

I stopped working in September of 2004, but didn't actually retire until December 31st of that year, as I had 15 weeks of saved vacation time.
I enjoyed most of my working time in a steel mill (except for the dayshifts), but the last couple of years, in a different department, weren't all that pleasant, and I was glad to leave a couple years shy of the 40 year-service mark.

I remain a shift worker, preferring afternoons and especially nights, with dayshift only when absolutely necessary.

Many of the older farts with whom I worked are gone, possibly because their only life was work, with never a hobby even considered.
Model railroading is one of the things keeping me sane (well, as much as can be expected, I guess) in these current times.  Keep busy, keep living.

Wayne

 

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Posted by hon30critter on Friday, January 1, 2021 3:46 PM

Congratulations Dan and Peter! I'm sure that you will enjoy being retired!

I retired from full time work in 2012. I was happy to get out! The job was horrible. I worked part time for another couple of years until my back couldn't take it anymore. Now am free to do as I choose (with Dianne of course) and I love it.

I am a night owl too! My juices don't start to flow until about 10:00 pm.

Cheers!!

Dave

I'm just a dude with a bad back having a lot of fun with model trains, and finally building a layout!

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Posted by selector on Friday, January 1, 2021 6:14 PM

Congratulations to both of you.  You'll merely swap out some intense interests, pursuits, and demands on your time for others.  The day is still 24 hours long; you'll just use all those hours differently, although with more autonomy.

I was always a night owl, and it has gotten worse in retirement. There's always a good book, a good history video or philosophical vlog, or someone's how-to on just about anything that comes a person's way that could be called a problem.  They keep me up until 0200 most nights.

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Posted by BATMAN on Friday, January 1, 2021 8:31 PM

Congratulations!

I retired at 52, my daughter was seven, my son was nine. Being there before and after school was the best. I loved my job and never had a day I didn't want to go to work, it was the best. A health issue made me pack it in, or rather I was told to retire. No regrets, I had a good run and have lots of stories and fond memories. 

My son is 22 now and the other day he said come on Dad, I still can't go to hockey without you.Cowboy I don't know how I ever had time to work and I still don't spend much time on my butt in front of the idiot box.

Brent

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Posted by B Rutherford on Friday, January 1, 2021 8:33 PM

Congratulations to both of you!

I have to admit to being a bit jealous.  Best case I have another 15 years

I still find time to enjoy the hobby but no nearly as much as I would like!

- Bill Rutherford Lancaster, NH

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Posted by SeeYou190 on Saturday, January 2, 2021 1:49 AM

Lastspikemike
The key to an enjoyable retirement is to treat every hour as the most valuable you have ever had available.

The opposite. Now that I am retired, every hour is simply to be piddled away on the simplest forms of happiness I can get.

All my valuable hours are behind me... on to the time that can be spent on trivial nonsense with no regrets.

The most valuable hours of my life were when I had three little girls at home that all needed their dad, and I only had very few hours that could be spent with them. I made the most of every second in those hours.

My hours now are just hours, and just for me.

-Kevin

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Posted by Overmod on Saturday, January 2, 2021 11:00 AM

Lastspikemike
Of course, opinions can't be the subject of correction.

Well, of course they can. But it isn't as necessary to 'accept' that correction as it is with facts ... just if the correction improves what you do by your own objective standards (cue the categorical-imperative Devo-corporate-anthem music).

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Posted by rrebell on Saturday, January 2, 2021 12:05 PM

SeeYou190

 

 
Lastspikemike
The key to an enjoyable retirement is to treat every hour as the most valuable you have ever had available.

 

The opposite. Now that I am retired, every hour is simply to be piddled away on the simplest forms of happiness I can get.

All my valuable hours are behind me... on to the time that can be spent on trivial nonsense with no regrets.

The most valuable hours of my life were when I had three little girls at home that all needed their dad, and I only had very few hours that could be spent with them. I made the most of every second in those hours.

My hours now are just hours, and just for me.

-Kevin

 

I have a family but when they were young I had no time. Took my first vacation when the oldest was around 10 or so, a weekend away for the wife and me, next one wasn't till 24 years later. was going regular now till this thing hit. Never had the money either till my ship came in but long term investing has paid off and my mom who bought into my dream is able to pay for her very expencive care home now, out here in California they are all real expencive.

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Posted by selector on Saturday, January 2, 2021 12:24 PM

The key to living is to do it the way we want, as we want, and when we want.  The key to great living is to deal with everything else.  And boy, will there be everything else if you do it right.

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Posted by BATMAN on Saturday, January 2, 2021 12:43 PM

selector

The key to living is to do it the way we want, as we want, and when we want.  The key to great living is to deal with everything else.  And boy, will there be everything else if you do it right.

 

My Dad retired from the Post office (middle management) the year I graduated High school and went out and bought the first brand new car he ever owned and bought more brand new cars throughout his retirement. 

One thing he said once was, "I don't know why people plan their retirement with the idea of having to cut back on spending, you need more money in retirement because you will have the time to spend it enjoying your retirement". They travelled a lot, plus spent a month in Hawaii every year to warm their old bones, bought a larger house to enjoy as he would be spending more time at home and he fixed it up just because he liked doing that kind of thing, and yes, bought new cars when he needed one.

He knew what he wanted in retirement and planned for it.

Brent

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Posted by hon30critter on Saturday, January 2, 2021 1:42 PM

SeeYou190
Now that I am retired, every hour is simply to be piddled away on the simplest forms of happiness I can get.

I agree with Kevin, (although I'm not sure that I would use the term 'piddled away'Smile, Wink & GrinLaugh). With a few rare exceptions for appointments, my time is my own time now. If I want to spend an hour playing Solitaire then I will. No regrets. If I choose to not work on the layout full time, I don't feel the least bit guilty. I do not feel the need to occupy every waking hour with some great accomplishment.

Cheers!!

Dave

 

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Posted by nycmodel on Saturday, January 2, 2021 1:57 PM

First, congratulations on your retirement. I retired 8 1/2 years ago. My HO layout, such as it was, was pretty much complete at that time. That first summer I looked into G scale and got myself an education and a plan. I started off small with a loop around the patio and a starter set. I then acquired track and sketched out a route through the garden. Each spring I would start another phase of the garden railway. Plenty of exercise plus it kept my creative juices flowing. What job? Never missed it especially the ever interfering "management" staff.

 

 

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