Gear,
I understand. My dad died in 1963, when I was nineteen. Hardly a day goes by (if any) that I don't think of him. He was a Great Depression survivor. Went in the CCCs to eat. Grew up shuttling between relatives either on the streets of Chicago or the Ozarks. Served a year in the field artillery before the War ended. He was as strong as a horse, tough and cold as an anvil. Inside he was a kind man and would help anyone he thought needed it, particularly children. This part he kept out of sight. Paid his bills on time. Made a point of it. Went to church and filtered out the religion and clung to the faith. We weren't touchy-feely toward each other but there was, on my part, a desire to be like him. Some ways I am, some not. He was an excellent self-taught machinist. So was I. His grandson worked his way up from cutoff saw to head of the milling department and got laid off just last week.
I think he'd be very proud of his grandson. I am. And looking both ways across the generations, I now, finally, understand that we don't 'pass on'. Our children, grandchildren etc see to that.
But I do understand the sense of loss.
Les
My dad passed away 30 years ago. But very few days go by, even now, that I don't think about him or something he said or something we did together. Those are great memories and I treasure them. Weather we know it or not, we all try to live our lives to be the kind of person we think our dads want us to be. Not to become the president, every father wants that for his kids .... I mean to become the kind of person your dad could respect. By the way Geardriven, I think your dad would probably have great respect for the guy who wrote that tribute to him.
So, let's all raise a glass to the memory of our dads. And those of you who are lucky enough to still have your dads with you, tell him, right now, how much he means to you.... I wish I had done it more often while I still had the chance.
Walt
A lovely tribute to what was obviously a great Dad.
Alan, Oliver & North Fork Railroad
https://www.buckfast.org.uk/
If you don't know where you are going, any road will take you there. Lewis Carroll English author & recreational mathematician (1832 - 1898)
Thanks. My Father served aboard the U.S.S. Tisdale DE31 and the U.S.S. Fleming DE32 from 1943-45. He was involved in a lot of action in the Pacific as well- most notably Saipan, the Marianas and Okinawa. He's 87 now and I know exactly how you feel and I'm not sure how well I will deal with what your going through when the time comes.
My heart goes out to you and yours!
Rene Schweitzer
Classic Toy Trains/Garden Railways/Model Railroader
Tin Can Sailors were a breed apart.
He would have been one of the Men I wish I would have known.
Myself GDS, I am having another death in the family. Not sure when he will go.
Peace & Light
Toad
Age is only a state of mind, keep the mind active and enjoy life
May the light of the Lord shine upon him forever....
Well said and well missed.
The Dixie D Short Line "Lux Lucet In Tenebris Nihil Igitur Mors Est Ad Nos 2001"
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