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Sad news: Elliot (Big_Boy_4005) has passed

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Sad news: Elliot (Big_Boy_4005) has passed
Posted by Soo Line fan on Sunday, February 5, 2023 2:19 PM

Some of you who have been around a while will likely remember Elliot. At one time the diner was named after him, since changed to honor Jeff.
 
Sadly, he had series of heath issues and passed away back in NOV.
 
Here is a link to a thread where he was very active and an obituary.
 
 
 

 
The same site has a 50-page build thread on his huge 3 rail layout. A massive undertaking.
 
 

 

While he was not active here for a long time, I used to regularly read his build and was amazed at the size.

 

Rest in Peace.

 

 

 

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Posted by hon30critter on Monday, February 6, 2023 4:15 AM

That's sad to hear. We need to get him added to the R.I.P. track, but I can't remember whether it was TF or Kevin who was doing that for us. Senior's moment.Bang Head

Cheers!!

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Posted by riogrande5761 on Monday, February 6, 2023 6:40 AM

THe forum name doesn't sound familiar but sorry to hear it.

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Posted by tstage on Monday, February 6, 2023 7:55 AM

He was an O-scaler so he probably spent most of his time posting on the Classic Toy Trains forum...

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Posted by SeeYou190 on Monday, February 6, 2023 8:00 AM

hon30critter
We need to get him added to the R.I.P. track, but I can't remember whether it was TF or Kevin who was doing that for us.

I have been maintaining the RIP Track graphic.

I will see what I can do...

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Posted by hon30critter on Monday, February 6, 2023 8:06 AM

SeeYou190
I have been maintaining the RIP Track graphic.

Kevin, I sincerely apologise for not being able to remember the fact that you have been the one who has done such an excellent job of keeping the RIP track up to date. I am deeply embarrassed.

Sorry if I have disappointed you.

Respectfully,

Dave

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Posted by SeeYou190 on Monday, February 6, 2023 8:32 AM

hon30critter
I sincerely apologise for not being able to remember the fact that you have been the one.

Dave: Not necessary at all, I can't remember (ever) who has posted this-or-that on this thread.

Laugh

I never knew Big Boy, so just let me know if he should be added, and I will make it so.

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Posted by bjdukert on Monday, February 6, 2023 1:51 PM

Big  Boy was the one that orginally started the Diner when it was called The Coffee Shop

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Posted by kasskaboose on Monday, February 6, 2023 2:24 PM

Sad to hear about his passing. 

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Posted by MisterBeasley on Monday, February 6, 2023 5:00 PM

I don't remember him, but I remember when this place was Elliot's Trackside Diner.  I vote for including him on the RIP Track.  There's a copy of his avatar on one of those old threads at the top.

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Posted by AntonioFP45 on Monday, February 6, 2023 6:10 PM

I remember responding to some of his posts years back.  Generally a friendly, encouuraging gentleman. May God rest him in gentle peace.

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Posted by ricktrains4824 on Monday, February 6, 2023 11:39 PM

Condolences to Elliot's friends and family. 

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Posted by "JaBear" on Tuesday, February 7, 2023 2:04 AM
He was well before my time, but having read some of his posts, he would seem to be as AntonioFP45 describes, so should be included, IMO.
My 2 Cents Cheers, the Bear.

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Posted by hon30critter on Tuesday, February 7, 2023 8:51 PM

SeeYou190
I never knew Big Boy, so just let me know if he should be added, and I will make it so.

Hi Kevin,

I think it would be appropriate to add Elliot to the RIP page, especially considering that he was the one who started 'The Coffee Shop' which was the original Diner. By the way, Elliot's last name was Feinberg.

Thanks Kevin,

Cheers!!

Dave

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Posted by SeeYou190 on Tuesday, February 7, 2023 9:48 PM

I will add his name to the memorial in time for March.

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Posted by hon30critter on Tuesday, February 7, 2023 10:51 PM

SeeYou190
I will add his name to the memorial in time for March.

Thanks Kevin,

Cheers!!

Dave

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Posted by NorthBrit on Wednesday, February 8, 2023 6:14 AM

Though I never knew Elliot,  it is always sad to hear the passing of a member of our model railroad family.

Condolences to his family and friends.

 

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Posted by Southgate 2 on Friday, February 10, 2023 2:43 AM

Also one who wasn't really familiar with Elliot, I will add my condolences for those who knew him. He obviously deserves his place in the R.I.P. Track. Dan

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Posted by richhotrain on Monday, February 13, 2023 10:51 AM

I have been under the weather recently, so I am a bit late replying to this thread.

First, my condolences to Elliot's family on his passing. I did not know Elliot, but his presence on this forum and his impact on the Diner was groundbreaking. At the very least, his name should be added with honor on the RIP Track in the Diner.

When Jeffrey Wimberly passed away on December 14, 2014, it was decided to rename the Diner from Elliott's Trackside Diner to Jeffrey's Trackside Diner with the wholehearted approval of the MR membership.

https://cs.trains.com/mrr/f/88/t/243124.aspx

Elliot had passed away a few years earlier, but the Diner remained in his name and in his honor until another giant in our little MR family passed way at the end of 2014.

At the time of Jeff's passing in late 2014, a discussion was begun whether to rename the Diner in Jeff's honor. At that time, we learned more about Elliot, who he was and how he had contributed to the forum. Here are some excerpts about Elliot:

Turns out, Elliot is a fella who joined the forums back in December 2003.  He is currently inactive on the forums but goes by the screen name of Big_Boy_4005.  His profile indicates that he is a 3-rail O-gauge modeler.  In 1992, he was the owner and designer of a large public display layout at the Mall of America, preserved in the pages of MR (October 1993) and CTT (September 1993).  He had some serious health issues back in 2007-2012, but has now returned to modeling, building a 2,000 square foot layout in his basement.  A Youtube video features the Twin Cities Central as of 10/30/14.  He made a brief reappearance on the CTT forum in March 2013 with a short message on the Coffee Pot.

Big_Boy_4005 came up with the idea to start the diner back in April 2004.  Initially it was called “The Coffee Shop (a place to chat) Est 2004”.  Prior to that, and there seems to be some confusion here, there was a similar thread called the Beer Barn on the forums.  The Coffee Shop closed on 12/31/06 and was restarted at the beginning of 2007 as the Trackside Diner.  It was later renamed Elliot’s Trackside Diner by its participants.

Reappeared on 3-13-2013 on CTT Coffee Pot.

Elliot is Big_Boy_4005.

A 3-rail O gauger.

I'm 51, and have been interested in trains all my life. I have worked in every major scale (including full size) at one time or another. Today I focus all my energy on O highrail. (3 rail O) For a number of years, I actually made a living in the hobby industry. In 1992 I was the owner and designer of a large public display train layout at the Mall of America. If you would like to see the layout , it has been preserved in the pages of MR (Oct. '93, p 92) and CTT (Sept. '93, p 86). Now I spend my time working on my dream layout. With a 2000 square foot train room in my basement, and all of the material left over from the mall display, I have my work cut out for me.

UPDATE: It has been over 6 years since my cancer diagnosis. Two surgeries in Jan 2007 seem to have gotten it all, but one of the scars was I've lost much of my interest in trains. In May 2012, my oncologist said he didn't want to see me anymore. Time for a comeback!

RGrande, Elliott (AKA BigBoy4005 - not sure on the number part of his old handle) was the one who started this Diner, then known as the Coffee Shop, as a place where off-topic posts (non-MRR-related) were permitted. Before the Diner (and another topic, which I believe was the Beer Barn), if you got off of MRR topics you might get a talking-to from one of the forum moderators (not quite as hard on you as Vinnie is, though).

From what I recall, Elliott was involved with a MRR club (in Minnesota, I think) which had a layout (modular?) that they would set up in one of the enclosed malls in their area at some point in the year (like around the holidays) and run trains to infect expose the general public to model railroading. He wasn't as active in the Diner when I started hanging around here (and I would have to look up when that was - 2006, maybe?), and a few years ago (maybe even 7-10 by now), his health began to give him problems, and he did eventually die. We renamed the Diner after him several years ago, in his honor.

The Coffee Shop (a place to chat) Est 2004

Closed 12-31-2006

Renamed Trackside Diner

Later renamed Elliot’s Trackside Diner

First called Beer Barn , later Coffee Shop

Still alive, apparently building a huge o gauge layout.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8IeoACNbw3o

Walking tour of the Twin Cities Central 10/30/14 

Rich

Edit Note: Sorry for the somewhat chaotic nature of this post. I am working to edit this bits and pieces into a more comprehensive summary of the origins of the Diner.

 

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Posted by Track fiddler on Tuesday, February 14, 2023 8:03 AM

Good morning

richhotrain

TF, 

What a beautiful story about Elliot.

Sometime back, he was talked about at length in the thread that I linked and how he started what today is the Diner. Although I am not a regular in the Diner, I have always been intrigued with its origins. So, I hope that today's regulars will find all of this as interesting as I do.

If you have the time and inclination to do so, if you could post this same information and photos in the other thread about Elliot's passing, I think that everyone who reads that thread would appreciate your thoughts and recollections.

Rich

Most certainly Rich, Thank you.
 
 
 
(Post forward:)
 
Elliot was my friend as we were club members of the Saint Louis Park & Western MR Club, that took place every Sunday morning, trackside to CP Rail in St Louis Park, Minnesota.

Elliot was one of the nicest guys you'd ever want to meet and loved by all.  The kind of person that would give you the shirt off his back if you needed one.

I'd sit and chat with Elliot at the Club breakfast bar, many Sunday mornings.  He had talked about his layout exhibit at the Mega Mall a few times, and was planning on having me build a curved bridge for his basement layout.  Unfortunately this never happened, as other complications and covid took place some time after.

Elliot was in a leg brace, having a tough time with circulation loss, my recollection from a diabetic condition.  Some time later, he had to have his leg amputated.  He just couldn't get a break, as he developed some rare infection that ate from the inside out of his hand.

Tamera was Elliot's, in home dialysis caretaker, and sent pictures to our club host Gary, who forwarded them to all of us.  Elliot never gave up fighting.

What an inspiration, that Elliot still had that same beautiful smile on his face he always had, even after everything he was going through. 

God rest Elliot's soul as he's at peace now.  He will always be remembered as the kind soul he is.

 

John

 
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Posted by richhotrain on Tuesday, February 14, 2023 8:27 AM

Thanks TF, that is quite a tribute to Elliot. I am sure that we all appreciate his contributions to the hobby and to these forums.

Rich

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Posted by mbinsewi on Wednesday, February 15, 2023 3:44 PM

Rest in the Lord's peace Elliot.

I remember just a bit about the diner during Elliot's time.  I was lurking on and off for years before I actually joined in.

When I finally joined, it was Elliot's diner.

Excellent posts from Ric and TF ! 

Sad to hear.  

Mike.

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