Can you post any photos? A few close ups would be helpful, too.
And, in the event you are unfamiliar how to post photos on the forum, here's a helpful primer on the topic:
http://cs.trains.com/mrr/f/88/t/249194.aspx
Tom
https://tstage9.wixsite.com/nyc-modeling
Time...It marches on...without ever turning around to see if anyone is even keeping in step.
Tom's right, pics would be very helpful here.
Couplers on hoppers can be an issue as they often mount onto what turn out to be rather spindly structures rendered in brass. You're better off if you can make the existing coupler mounts work in some fashion, because cutting out and replacing can be a challange as you seem to have already suggested.
The key to making this work is having the old box mount at roughly the right height for the model you're building. Kadee's HO gauge shows this, not sure about O.
Mike Lehman
Urbana, IL