QUOTE: In industry sidings, (not necessarily in your yards,) a #4 is good. Just don't drop a 4 in your mainline if you can avoid it. It will come back to haunt you at some point in time for many reasons.
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QUOTE: This page http://www.nmra.org/standards/rp-11.html gives recommended curves and turnouts for different length locos and cars and is worth following for your layout.