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DEALING WITH NEIGHBORS

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Posted by Anonymous on Tuesday, November 8, 2005 6:11 PM
We put on drinks and snacks for our neighbours from time to time; this helps. Sometimes when the girls are away I'll hire a couple of models from the local modelling agency as well.

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Posted by grandpopswalt on Wednesday, November 9, 2005 12:20 AM
Steel Rails,

As Torby said, the five year old probably didn't do it intentionally. I was told by a person who owns a model railway museum and operating layout that children under six sould not be allowed to play with "scale" LS trains unattended and that they MAY be responsible enough at age twelve. I guess that depends on the individual child but it sounds about right to me.

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Posted by Capt Bob Johnson on Wednesday, November 9, 2005 10:42 AM
kids need to learn how quickly accidents happen, even when you think you are paying attention. I taught my boys by letting them ride the garden tractor(at a very low gear) in my front yard. Once or twice running into trees when looking in another direction taught them both the lesson rather quickly and quite permanently.

Likewise, I'd rather let a kid have an accident due to inattention with an $800 train at a young age than with a car at some older age.

Much depends on the kid, was it deliberate, didn't he think about all he had going on? maybe he needed to understand that he needed to think about more things happening than what was where he was looking! A lot of things we bear in the back of our minds when operating are not automatic with kids, they need to learn them and the need for them; and I maintain its better to learn those lessons at 1:29 than it is 1:1----!

I sometimes get frustrated with my airhead 15 year old grandson, but how else is he gonna learn! He's at the age where the only "important" thing to think about is girls!

Oh well, life goes on! Ain't it great?
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Posted by RhB_HJ on Wednesday, November 9, 2005 11:54 AM
We are lucky, our neighbours take a keen, friendly interest in the GRR.
We also have two dogs in the same yard as the GRR and Huskies having a bit of a reputation works just fine.[;)][}:)][}:)][:D][:D]
By way of explanation, one of the two has a striking resemblance to a wolf, just the looks, not the size.
Cheers HJ http://www.rhb-grischun.ca/ http://www.easternmountainmodels.com
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Posted by Anonymous on Thursday, November 17, 2005 4:38 PM
steel rails
Thats a grusome story
well i mean 2 people running 3 trains...
These people did it intentially and have not yet forgiven them (they never said sorry)
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Posted by nickinwestwales on Friday, November 18, 2005 7:42 PM
Hi guys,-could be that we are expecting kids to act & think like grown-ups-my 4 year old loves to play with daddy`s trains but has an attention span of about 3 minutes and (like her daddy) can walk across a room & forget what she came in for before she gets there. If she causes a wreck,Its my fault for not supervising her properly (slight wander off-topic but seemed vaguely relevant)have fun,all the best,nick
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Posted by Tom The Brat on Saturday, November 19, 2005 8:34 AM
Her attention span is longer than mine[:-^]
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Posted by Anonymous on Monday, November 21, 2005 12:00 PM
glad i live in the boonies the more i read from you all about how the neighbors do your RR
maybe i dont need to go back to the city afterall? best regards, john
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Posted by Dick Friedman on Monday, December 12, 2005 1:23 PM
I live on a cul-de-sac. All our yards are fenced. If someone's not invited in my yard, they are trespassers. I'd ask them to leave or I'd call the sheriff.
Don't need to do this, however, as I'm open a couple of times a year and neighbors drop by to see what's gone on since their last visit. The kids are all big and well behaved, the grandkids get watched.

They're happy, I'm happy. And we all have fun together working on the RR!
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Posted by Anonymous on Monday, December 12, 2005 6:08 PM
I never have had that problem with my neighbors or thier kids, course I am 14 and I am the youngest in my neighborhood. Plus my garden rr is in the country 15 miles from where I live. Also, my grandpa lives there and ever gun owned by a Ridyolph seems to be stored there.
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Posted by Anonymous on Monday, December 12, 2005 6:51 PM
If you are at least twelve, then you should start frequenting Teen Railfan Place over on toward the bottom of the forum. I'm one of the regulars there(between bootings).
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Posted by Tom The Brat on Tuesday, December 13, 2005 9:47 AM
I'm always delighted when the neighbors drop by.



Yes, the drink took a trip around the railroad.
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Posted by RhB_HJ on Tuesday, December 13, 2005 11:04 AM
QUOTE: Originally posted by 4-8-4 UP Northern

If you are at least twelve, then you should start frequenting Teen Railfan Place over on toward the bottom of the forum. I'm one of the regulars there(between bootings).


Hey man!

Is that an invitation to barge in over there, start a few "interesting" threads and create a bit of havoc???

BTW on your sig; I've been running electric trains for 53 years and yet I have never owned a single piece of Lionel stuff.[;)][}:)][:)] As a matter of fact I have never run that three-rail stuff, not even in HO (Märklin and Co.).
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